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to worry that I am in early, early periomenopause

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consistentlyinconsistent · 20/04/2025 14:27

I'm 35. Period is over 2 weeks late, had a bit of PMS and then felt 'normal'. No change of pregnancy. Last few days had period pains and related symptoms but no period! I had similar twice last year - ended up with a 62 day cycle twice in a row and periods were horrendous. Wondering if I am in very early stages of perimenopause. Anyone with any experience of this? Thanks.

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Starbri8 · 20/04/2025 15:25

Hi OP , peri is definitely a possibility, I started at 34 but didn’t recognise the symptoms at the time . I started with lighter periods, then had period symptoms but no period …intense itching all over my body , severe burning pain in genitals. My doctor didn’t recognise the symptoms either …..he did a liver function test ! I got married at 35 babies at 37 and 41 no IVF was very fortunate. HRT at 41 . First baby took 3 months to conceive last baby 9 months. Was told I had negligible oestrogen before baby two was conceived . My grandmother was post menopausal at 39 but she’d had 13 children at that point. Apologies for the rant I couldn’t read and run and slightly squiffy after a few ports cooking Easter (very late lunch !!!) ❤️

Darkambergingerlily · 20/04/2025 15:27

A friend just got diagnosed as starting menopause stage at 34. It does happen

RealityContinuesToRuinMyLife · 20/04/2025 15:29

It’s possible, peri can start at 35. However, underlying health issues (thyroid problems for example) can cause periods to go haywire so it would be worth a discussion with the GP.

to worry that I am in early, early periomenopause
consistentlyinconsistent · 20/04/2025 19:06

Starbri8 · 20/04/2025 15:25

Hi OP , peri is definitely a possibility, I started at 34 but didn’t recognise the symptoms at the time . I started with lighter periods, then had period symptoms but no period …intense itching all over my body , severe burning pain in genitals. My doctor didn’t recognise the symptoms either …..he did a liver function test ! I got married at 35 babies at 37 and 41 no IVF was very fortunate. HRT at 41 . First baby took 3 months to conceive last baby 9 months. Was told I had negligible oestrogen before baby two was conceived . My grandmother was post menopausal at 39 but she’d had 13 children at that point. Apologies for the rant I couldn’t read and run and slightly squiffy after a few ports cooking Easter (very late lunch !!!) ❤️

I have no itching... only random symptoms I've had recently have been sore feet and a bad taste in my mouth... could be totally unrelated! Thanks for your post and I hope you enjoyed your lunch x @Starbri8

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consistentlyinconsistent · 20/04/2025 19:06

Darkambergingerlily · 20/04/2025 15:27

A friend just got diagnosed as starting menopause stage at 34. It does happen

thanks for messaging. Yes it somehow feels too young (I still feel very young!) but I guess it isn't in terms of women's health. @Darkambergingerlily

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consistentlyinconsistent · 20/04/2025 19:08

RealityContinuesToRuinMyLife · 20/04/2025 15:29

It’s possible, peri can start at 35. However, underlying health issues (thyroid problems for example) can cause periods to go haywire so it would be worth a discussion with the GP.

@RealityContinuesToRuinMyLife thanks. I actually had lots of tests, including thyroid/ transvaginal ultrasound /full blood test/ smear last year when I had two very long cycles and heavy periods. Found nothing apart from slightly low iron, which was expected. But may be worth going again though.

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