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Sertraline - stopped 2 months ago

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Plant2628 · 18/04/2025 19:54

Struggling after weaning off 2 months ago. Was on it for 6 years, low dosage 25mg for most of the later years. Fine at first but now it's like all my reserves have depleted. Anyone found it gets better? Thanks.

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SquashedMallow · 19/04/2025 00:01

Hi!

So... I have a disaster story I'm afraid. I was very well (mentally) on sertraline for a good period of time. I decided there was nothing mentally wrong with me (which there wasn't - on the sertraline) I'd just failed to make the link that the prescribed medication was in fact treating my mental health difficulties.

I came off it by myself. I was like a pubescent, pre menstrual, raging addict in withdrawal. I was hideous!

I had to go back on it. Now I'm back to "normal". It'd a small tablet once per day and a little stain on my medical records that I need a pill to be normal. But I do need a pill to be normal. And it works. So... Guess I'll just have to get over it !

Maybe coming off sertraline hasn't worked out for you? Why don't you go back on it ? Life is way too short to suffer mentally if you don't have to.

Plant2628 · 19/04/2025 07:35

Thank you...I've wondered, I just don't know if to give it a bit more time...

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Coaster1 · 19/04/2025 08:49

I came off it last December- because we’d gone away and I’d forgotten my pills. I thought it was time to do it. And yes I knew about the medical advice but did it out of ‘necessity’
it’s not been great but it’s been ok. Has a sluggish few months trying to find my energy and motivation. Also developed a recurring thought that ‘everyone dies’ and being unmoved by any sad event. So a sort of numbness.
am feeling more balanced now but replaced by a sadness about my ageing - although that’s probably normal sadly

Plant2628 · 19/04/2025 10:09

I might give it a bit longer...see how I go through the summer
Thanks for sharing your experiences

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Iamaverysillyperson · 19/04/2025 10:11

I came down off 200mg over a period of 6 months. I don't feel 'better' without it per se, but I'd rather stay off it, if possible.

CalicoPusscat · 19/04/2025 10:14

You'd better see GP. I had 2 friends try it, one it worked well for and she came off it fine, it made other angry think it really depends on the person?

SandrenaIsMyBloodType · 19/04/2025 10:14

I am sure that you don’t judge other people for needing daily medication. Please don’t be hard on yourself. If you feel you need to go back on it, it’s not any kind of failure. There is nothing morally superior about white-knuckling it through your health struggles, whether those struggles are physical or mental.

Yoheresthestory · 19/04/2025 10:23

I slowly tapered from 50mg over a year! I was so scared to stop but was so well in myself I came off fully in Dec. The withdrawal of even that last 12.5mg I took for a while and only every second day was bad! So I just cut it completely and the withdrawal settled in a week.

I’ve been absolutely brilliant off it. My coil also came out in Nov and I think that might also have helped. But I also started running right after Christmas and I’m absolutely slamming it at work, my kids are a bit older than when I fell apart 5 yrs ago and that helps, and I’ve lost weight and am looking better than I have in 20 yrs. it’s only 4 months since I stopped and I’m aware that my resilience is not great for example if one of my increasingly elderly parents dies. But I’m doing better off it than even on it. I do think a lot of the success is the improvements to my body and energy through exercise.

theunbreakablecleopatrajones · 19/04/2025 10:25

SquashedMallow · 19/04/2025 00:01

Hi!

So... I have a disaster story I'm afraid. I was very well (mentally) on sertraline for a good period of time. I decided there was nothing mentally wrong with me (which there wasn't - on the sertraline) I'd just failed to make the link that the prescribed medication was in fact treating my mental health difficulties.

I came off it by myself. I was like a pubescent, pre menstrual, raging addict in withdrawal. I was hideous!

I had to go back on it. Now I'm back to "normal". It'd a small tablet once per day and a little stain on my medical records that I need a pill to be normal. But I do need a pill to be normal. And it works. So... Guess I'll just have to get over it !

Maybe coming off sertraline hasn't worked out for you? Why don't you go back on it ? Life is way too short to suffer mentally if you don't have to.

I don’t think it’s a stain on your medical records!

Alicehatter · 19/04/2025 10:29

I've been on it for a very long time. Tried to come off it about 6 years ago as I felt I was well, but after a few months I realised like @squashedmallow, I was 'well' because I was on it! I quickly declined and had to go back on it. I've made my peace with it now and just accepted I need it in the same way other people need diabetes medication or pain medication etc. Not everyone needs it long term, so coming off it could work out for you, but don't beat yourself up if you need it again 💐

EdnaTheWitch · 19/04/2025 11:20

I’m currently coming off. I’ve been on it for 11 years, and for the first few years definitely needed to be, and so the side effects were tolerable and, in the grand scheme of things, unimportant. I also underwent a lot of trauma therapy in that time. I have (had?) a complex PTSD stemming from childhood abuse. My understanding from the trauma team is that my childhood brain development would have been affected.

However, my life has changed significantly in the last 7 years or so, and I’m
nowhere near where I was in 2014. The side effects are also now wearing me down. Ironic, I know. Also, my medication / prescription is never reviewed.

I’ve gradually gone from being maximum dose (200mg) down to 100mg but was never able to go any lower. This time, I’ve done things a bit differently.

I have a new GP, and a wrong diagnosis recorded on my file, which prompted me to have a conversation with him and we discussed at length how I might come off sertraline. I think he is probably humouring me to some extent, but he gave me a 9 week withdrawal schedule and I’m due to see him next week. I’m now 3 weeks off fully. I don’t feel great, but I don’t feel awful. I don’t feel great because I’ve had a really shitty few weeks and would be feeling the same whether I was on sertraline or not!

I focussed this time on making better lifestyle choices to help my withdrawal, and also looked in to some Ayurvedic supplements, which I’ve been taking. Life has thrown things at me; friend’s death, whole kitchen refurb, teenagers at the horrible phase of teenageness. The hope of having time for me everyday, outdoors & exercising, eating good food and having decent sleep hasn’t gone as planned, I’ve been constantly on the go for 16 hour days and am burned out….but that period is coming to an end and life is returning to a more normal pace.

I have had some wobbles, tears and doubts, but I think I can get there. But I do need to prioritise the lifestyle parts, otherwise I’ll be back on (hopefully) a low dose.

My husband made an interesting observation that I was fixating on the medication withdrawal being the cause of ALL stress, and he was right. We were all devastated by my friend’s death, my reaction to that was totally normal and nothing to do with sertraline withdrawal.
We’ve had no kitchen for 3 weeks and the upheaval is immense. Of course it is, sertraline withdrawal isn’t to blame.

I think my brain is pre-programmed to panic and that’s my default. It’s learning now to manage that panic, and articulate what it needs instead, that I need to focus on.

Apologies for the long post, but it’s a complex time that can’t be put in to two sentences!

My best advice is to have a clear withdrawal plan with your GP / prescriber, prioritise better lifestyle choices, have someone close (for me it’s my husband) who can be your soothing, supportive and rational voice for you during this period. I’ve been pretty impressed with the supplements I’ve taken, but appreciate that’s not for everyone.

Babno3 · 30/04/2025 14:12

@Plant2628 Hi, Jumping on a little late to this post. Did you end up going back on the medication or are you giving it a little while longer? I went off mines in January, I was on 100mg and felt horrible, then felt amazing about 1 month later really focused and wanting to put so much effort into everything which I loved. Was able to cry properly etc. and now for the last 4-6 weeks I’ve been having awful pains everywhere, headaches, weak legs. Fibromyalgia and arthritis run in my family all diagnosed in their teens and 20’s so I’m beginning to think there’s a chance that sertraline (which is used to treat fibromyalgia) might have been stopping it on its tracks. Maybe not but I feel it may not be coincidental. My mood is also very low, very hard on myself about everything and feeling more and more like the person I was the day I started the medication (3+ years ago) than ever before so I’m going to go back on them. I was much happier and at peace with myself. And @Coaster1 those kind of thoughts keep me awake at night too and my sleep has been horrendous. So I’m going to stop guilt tripping myself for going back on them. I’m a mum of three beautiful children and I want to be happy for myself but most of all for them 💞

Plant2628 · 30/04/2025 15:23

Your last line sums it perfectly and how I feel. My son notices. I cant have him worrying about me. I went back on them today. Starting psychotherapy too which I'm lucky enough to get through BUPA.
I'm sorry you struggle too.

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Plant2628 · 30/04/2025 15:25

This - couldn't agree more unfortunately.

I think my brain is pre-programmed to panic and that’s my default. It’s learning now to manage that panic, and articulate what it needs instead, that I need to focus on.

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