Please help me how to deal with this guy as he is really really annoying me.
Long story short, my sister is known for always getting along with the wrong guys but this time she married this one. I don’t think she reasons on what he is doing as she is not very emotionally mature.
She is very manipulative and she just likes to use people and then get rid of them when she is done with them. We are at my parents house at the moment visiting and meanwhile he moved in my parents house, they don’t pay any bills, they drive my parent’s car. He doesn’t own a car, he doesn’t have a house or a flat, his parents don’t give him the car nor help him financially.
Also, he can clearly see I don’t like leaving my DC with him on their own and he constantly insists “oh let’s take the DC with us”, then he touches her all the time like he tickles her properly and I just don’t like it. I will say she doesn’t like it and he will still do it so I physically remove her. She then cries because I’m the mean mum obviously as she thinks they are playing.
My stupid sister just sits and watches -she never backs me up.
But now I had enough - I left the room for 2 minutes but I can still hear them and I can still see them and he threw himself on her.
I actually hate it - it makes me feel sick.
please tell me what to do, he drives me crazy.