AWARDED DLA! I ORIGINALLY POSTED THIS A FEW WEEKS AGO!!
"just curious, I am a single mother of two boys age 6 and 7, I haven't heard from there dad in years he's just disappeared so I get no help. My 8 year old is with cahms being assessed for autism, we've been with them for 3 years, I received a call last week and they said he is autistic, not just autistic but severely (I always knew but was indenial). He is with a paediatric for eating disorders and stomach issues, he has an echp plan as he is so behind in school, a continence nurse as he cannot go to the toilet or sit on a toilet he fears it, he stool withholds and wears pull ups and soils him self all day, he has a fear of toilets, as doesn't like how a toilet seat feels, he doesn't wear shoes or socks and walks around on tip toes all day, he only eats dry beige food (pasta and chips).
I have sent all this info of appointments with continence nurses, pediatrics, cahms, etc to the DLA in December his pull ups and wipes and special dietary requirements such as pedicure as he doesn't eat much, cost me an Arm and a leg I dont know what DLA is and didnt really want to apply because I know the government are in enough finical crisis. but I so need help I can't take it anymore im living off pennies im struggling so much. due to his needs I'm over £8000 in debt trying to pay for the pull ups and social drinks each month without help from his father, how much do you think he may get if awarded, I put on form that im up all night caring for him as he soils through the night and shakes after stool withholding all day, his currently on pediasure for his dietary needs and on movical for a disimpaction because of the stool withholding, its so hard :'( ive been to early help and add up charities for help with his conditions and autism as he has outbursts."
We've been awarded high rate for motability and daily care!! So receiving over £700 a month and got it backdated. Is there a special element I can apply for via universal credit for him or is it just DLA how much universal credit can you get? and say if I decide not to apply for it as dont need it right now, if I applied in the future say 2 years from now could I get it backdated for years or is there a cut off point. I receive LCWRA and pip myself as disabled so dont want to take too much from government :(