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AIBU to be gutted my house has lost me money?

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Hotpinkparade · 17/04/2025 12:36

I guess I’m really wondering if anyone else has been in this situation and what I can do… I bought a two bed flat in a nice area of London in 2017. Redecorated, replaced the kitchen and bathroom, and have lived here happily since.

We’re starting to outgrow it and decided to get the flat valued and see what’s out there. Two valuations, both for the same as we bought it - maybe 5% growth if we’re lucky. I’m just gutted. With inflation over that time, we’ve essentially lost £200,000. The estate agent said house prices in our area haven’t gone up over that time because it’s not ‘up and coming’, it came up a long time ago and has stayed desirable. What do we do? Just suck it up and sell, or wait and see if anything changes?

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SheilaFentiman · 17/04/2025 17:29

Hotpinkparade · 17/04/2025 16:50

Literally not allowed a pet, or to decorate how we want, which is why we’re leaving, as I mentioned in an earlier post. Leasehold isn’t the same as owning outright in terms of autonomy, not by a long stretch. But yes I recognise I’m fortunate not to be renting and I’m very grateful for that.

How could you not decorate how you want, but put in a new kitchen and bathroom? Or do you mean the outside of the property?

Hotpinkparade · 17/04/2025 17:33

SheilaFentiman · 17/04/2025 17:29

How could you not decorate how you want, but put in a new kitchen and bathroom? Or do you mean the outside of the property?

We were forced to put carpet down in the flat under threat of forfeiting our lease if we didn't. Despite the flat having hard floors when we bought it, and being on the ground floor with no one living beneath us. There are also a million other covenants, permissions we have to seek to make any changes, only allowed a specific brand of expensive windows, etc etc.

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Hastentoadd · 17/04/2025 17:35

Hotpinkparade · 17/04/2025 17:33

We were forced to put carpet down in the flat under threat of forfeiting our lease if we didn't. Despite the flat having hard floors when we bought it, and being on the ground floor with no one living beneath us. There are also a million other covenants, permissions we have to seek to make any changes, only allowed a specific brand of expensive windows, etc etc.

only allowed a specific brand of expensive windows

Out of interest, did the other part owners pay something towards cost of the window replacement?

Hotpinkparade · 17/04/2025 17:38

Hastentoadd · 17/04/2025 17:35

only allowed a specific brand of expensive windows

Out of interest, did the other part owners pay something towards cost of the window replacement?

No, it would just be our cost if we wanted to replace our windows. Which we do, as they are single glazed, most of them no longer open (or the ones that do open don’t close properly), and starting to rust. But the quote to replace was £20k and has probably gone up since we looked in to it, so we’ll just shiver instead!

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caringcarer · 17/04/2025 17:44

Hotpinkparade · 17/04/2025 14:09

How would I know this? No one told me anything like this. Also - makes me sick to type but the person I bought from paid roughly £325k in 2011 and sold to me for £625k in 2017. So he made a lovely amount of money over five years!

Sorry OP, I actually thought anyone buying a flat would have done their research and knew they didn't hold their value like a house. Also flats are leasehold so that's another disadvantage. As the leasehold runs down it's sometimes harder to get a mortgage without buying a longer lease. Obviously I don't know how many years you have left on your lease. It sounds as if you might have overpaid. Can you hold on to it until prices rise a bit more?

SheilaFentiman · 17/04/2025 17:45

Hotpinkparade · 17/04/2025 17:38

No, it would just be our cost if we wanted to replace our windows. Which we do, as they are single glazed, most of them no longer open (or the ones that do open don’t close properly), and starting to rust. But the quote to replace was £20k and has probably gone up since we looked in to it, so we’ll just shiver instead!

OP

We have secondary glazing on some of our windows, which is a pane of glass fastened inside the window. Might be worth looking at because it wouldn't impact on the appearance.

SlightlyJaded · 17/04/2025 17:48

Hmmm quite hard to find a two bed flat with private outside space in Hampstead or Belsize Park for that. I think it might be worth a third valuation....

Maria1982 · 17/04/2025 17:51

Hotpinkparade · 17/04/2025 12:50

I guess it feels like a loss due to the mad rates of inflation over that time. The money I paid in 2017 would be worth £200k more in 2025 thanks to inflation.

I think you’ve got this the wrong way round!!
especially since you bought in cash . If you had held onto the cash in 2017 instead of buying, your cash would now be worth much LESS due to inflation.

plus as many other have said - you’ve had all these years of not paying rent or mortgage, which surely means you’ve been able to either save or live well on your income

caringcarer · 17/04/2025 17:55

GreatCyanCrab · 17/04/2025 14:24

I guess it’s location dependent it would be very unusual for any property bought in 2017 to have kept up with inflation. Definitely in places I have lived/bought/sold they wouldn’t have.

Nationwide have a House Price Index that I use sometimes for work - it would be more useful for you to look at that.

I think it is likely location dependent because I bought a 3 bedroom btl house with some inheritance in 2016 in the West Midlands. DH did some work on it and I had a new kitchen and bathroom. It's more than doubled in value and I've been repaying additional mortgage off every month because mortgage rates have been low and now I've only got a little over £62k left to pay on it to clear the mortgage.

Hastentoadd · 17/04/2025 17:59

Hotpinkparade · 17/04/2025 17:38

No, it would just be our cost if we wanted to replace our windows. Which we do, as they are single glazed, most of them no longer open (or the ones that do open don’t close properly), and starting to rust. But the quote to replace was £20k and has probably gone up since we looked in to it, so we’ll just shiver instead!

Have you tried arguing that it isn’t a ‘want’ it’s a necessity in order to adequately ventilate the flat and maintain it, state that mould could develop which could harm inhabitants and damage the property, also windows that don’t close fully are a security risk and could possibly endanger lives

Muffinmam · 17/04/2025 18:05

Summer2025 · 17/04/2025 15:21

My flat has barely increased in value (owner of 1930s 2 bed london flat) but I had stable mortgage payments from age 26 to 32 of 1k per month and service charge barely increased..now going on mat leave and mortgage fixed at 1282 until next June. Dh director of residents management company so we have oversight of service charges.

I was on a low income in my 20s and it didn't increase until 2023 (bought in 2019). Dh was on london average income (around 50k mark) and his pay only substantially increased in 2022.

I probably wouldn't have been able to afford rent fluctuations and would have stayed with my family.

And I think I did gain equity cos I used my spare money to overpay mortgage- my balance went down by 60k. But I only overpaid when our salaries increased, didn't overpay for first 3 years and not overpaying now cos I am expecting and we have lots of costs associated with the baby and my DH's health (£700 a month on medication! And he has employer health insurance).. but I will overpay after baby gets free childcare hours. Owning a property does give you more flexibility re earnings which allows you to cover other necessary costs..

I’m sorry your husband’s medication is so expensive.
£700 is so much money. I hope he’s going ok.

BrilliantBrilliant · 17/04/2025 18:08

Your inheritance has basically provided you with a home. It hasn't risen in value but not fallen. It's a home. Move if you want to another home. Free homes don't come to many.

HerNeighbourTotoro · 17/04/2025 18:16

Hotpinkparade · 17/04/2025 14:09

How would I know this? No one told me anything like this. Also - makes me sick to type but the person I bought from paid roughly £325k in 2011 and sold to me for £625k in 2017. So he made a lovely amount of money over five years!

So now you are jealous someone made money but not you, because you expected to also make £300000. You need to let go. Why does it make you sick someone was fortunate because they bought at the right time (and you didnt).

Hotpinkparade · 17/04/2025 18:21

HerNeighbourTotoro · 17/04/2025 18:16

So now you are jealous someone made money but not you, because you expected to also make £300000. You need to let go. Why does it make you sick someone was fortunate because they bought at the right time (and you didnt).

Okay chill out. I was asked why I didn’t know I wouldn’t make money on the flat. I pointed out that the previous owner made plenty of money on the flat, so how was I to know the same wouldn’t happen again? I didn’t expect the flat to carry on doubling in value forever, but I did expect it to rise in value over 8 years. Lesson learned.

’Making me sick’ was perhaps a strong way of phrasing it; I guess it’s in relation to people suggesting I’ve overpaid, so it’s a bit galling to look back on.

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UrinalCake · 17/04/2025 18:22

caringcarer · 17/04/2025 17:55

I think it is likely location dependent because I bought a 3 bedroom btl house with some inheritance in 2016 in the West Midlands. DH did some work on it and I had a new kitchen and bathroom. It's more than doubled in value and I've been repaying additional mortgage off every month because mortgage rates have been low and now I've only got a little over £62k left to pay on it to clear the mortgage.

Agree, that doesn't sound right. The overall picture is of properties not increasing in real terms, but there are surely going to be loads of areas that buck the trend given the massive social change since then.

We also bought around that time and it's increased about 25% in real terms, having done not much bar paint and not been very clever about anything. Still not a very expensive house, granted, so 25% in real terms is a lot less than it would be elsewhere.

Hotpinkparade · 17/04/2025 18:22

Hastentoadd · 17/04/2025 17:59

Have you tried arguing that it isn’t a ‘want’ it’s a necessity in order to adequately ventilate the flat and maintain it, state that mould could develop which could harm inhabitants and damage the property, also windows that don’t close fully are a security risk and could possibly endanger lives

Unfortunately I could write a whole other thread on the unreasonable attitude of the freeholders! But their answer to such a plea would be (and is) - you’d better stump up and replace the windows then. Not their problem that we can’t afford the exorbitant cost.

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PorridgeEater · 17/04/2025 18:48

Cadenza12 · 17/04/2025 13:12

The obvious question is did you overpay in the first place?

That's what I thought.

CheeseeesyWotsits · 17/04/2025 18:57

Hotpinkparade · 17/04/2025 12:50

I guess it feels like a loss due to the mad rates of inflation over that time. The money I paid in 2017 would be worth £200k more in 2025 thanks to inflation.

How? Can you explain your maths OP?

TheoriginalMrsDarcy · 17/04/2025 19:08

The problem is flats just don't go up in value as much as houses and in London, there's plenty on the market so demand is lower. There's only so much you can do with a flat, whereas you can extend in a house, and if you have a garden it's worth more.

If you've not made a loss, I'd sell up and buy a house. With the new renters rights, there are plenty of landlords selling up now, more choice. Good luck.

SunnySideDeepDown · 17/04/2025 19:12

edwinbear · 17/04/2025 15:51

I paid £625k in 2017. (I put this into an inflation calculator that said this would be ‘worth’ £822k in 2025.)

OP you've really misunderstood what this inflation calculator is telling you. £625k is £625k - whether that's in 2017 or 2025. £625k doesn't magically become £822k in 8 years 'just because inflation'. The purchasing power of £625k is less in 2025 than it was in 2017, meaning if you wanted to buy goods included in the components that make up the inflation figure (bread, yoga mats, TV subscriptions, pre-packed salad, dry-cleaning, ceramic tiles, curtains etc), you'd get fewer of those items today, than you would have in 2017.

So, if you sold your house today, you wouldn't be able to buy the same number of yoga mats with the proceeds, as you could have in 2017. That's true. But presumably you have no intention of selling your house and using the proceeds to buy pre-packed salad and TV subscriptions, so it's completely irrelevant. What's relevant, is if you sold your house and bought another house, what that level of inflation is i.e. house price inflation. In your area, house price inflation has remained static - so the purchasing power of your house proceeds is the same. You could buy the same house, for the same price, so you've not lost anything at all.

Exactly this. You may not have made profit, but presumably the next place you buy won’t have either? So you can still afford the same home?

Id much rather be moving up the ladder now than down.

netflixskivving · 17/04/2025 19:16

You may not have made profit, but presumably the next place you buy won’t have either? So you can still afford the same home?

It's harder to climb up the ladder

https://www.standard.co.uk/homesandproperty/buying-mortgages/upsize-flat-to-house-price-difference-london-b1213421.html#:~:text=It's%20becoming%20increasingly%20difficult%20for,faster%20rate%20than%20flat%20prices.

Wonderberry · 17/04/2025 20:03

Hotpinkparade · 17/04/2025 13:12

No it’s a mansion block, around 100 years old. Service charge is high (around £4k a year) but not unusual for the area - the block next door is £10k a year (albeit including heating and hot water.) Lease is at around 180 years, we are leasehold owners.

With a service charge like that, it's unsurprising that the value has remained stagnant. That would put off most buyers.

People are preferring houses or at least share of freehold flats currently due to the unreasonable service charges in leasehold flats. FYI a friend in a lives in a large shared of freehold flat in London and each freeholder puts £50 a month in the 'kitty' which easily covers everything, with money left over. There is no justification for £4k a year! Quite rightly, buyers are voting with their feet.

EdithBond · 17/04/2025 20:20

Hotpinkparade · 17/04/2025 13:12

No it’s a mansion block, around 100 years old. Service charge is high (around £4k a year) but not unusual for the area - the block next door is £10k a year (albeit including heating and hot water.) Lease is at around 180 years, we are leasehold owners.

It may be the service charge that’s limiting your market. On top of a mortgage (or even if mortgage-free), buyers will have to she’ll out £4k a year. Thinking about your market it’ll either be first time buyers, singles/couples post-divorce/downsizing or landlords/someone buying as a pied-à-terre/second home/holiday let. The latter will likely be put off by the service charge, as it’ll eat into their profit.

Savvy first time buyers go for places where they can add value and sell at a profit. Yours won’t appeal to them as you’ve done all the work. It also depends if the improvements you’ve made are to most buyers’ taste or if they’ll feel they have to replace things, which is more cost and hassle.

Ask agents who the most likely buyers will be and present it in photos to appeal to that market or as wide a market as possible, e.g. add a (mocked up) single bed or desk rather than a cot in a second bedroom.

See what other similar places have recently sold for. Sometimes agents underprice for a quick sale, as their commission is a percentage, so £10 grand here or there doesn’t matter too much to them. They’d rather get more sales through the books to pay their costs.

SheilaFentiman · 17/04/2025 20:23

Yes, rather agree with this. The repayments on a £500k odd mortgage (assuming the buyer has a decent deposit of £100k+) will be pricey enough without adding on another £330 a month for service charge. Not to mention the requirements for work on the windows etc.

WinterFoxes · 17/04/2025 21:32

BarnacleBeasley · 17/04/2025 12:54

But where would you have lived between 2017 and now if you'd just invested the money?

How much would 8-9 years' rental in a flat of equivalent size and standard have cost?