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To feel it hasn’t gone fast

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alloftheothers · 17/04/2025 08:35

DS(4) got his school place yesterday.

I’m surrounded by ‘hasn’t it gone fasts’ on social media which obviously take with a pinch of salt but also real life. It’s gone so fast, where has that gone, hasn’t it flown by.

I seem to be a lone voice in thinking ‘no.’ Light years have passed since I was pregnant with DS! It feels like ages since I was pregnant with him and he was a baby, even a toddler.

I love him to bits of course but it definitely feels a long time since I was childfree!

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Orangesinthebag · 17/04/2025 12:58

honeysucklebelladonna · 17/04/2025 12:03

My DC are adults and it feels both a long and short time, sometimes it feels like yesterday they were little and other times it feels like another life.

I agree. Looking at pics of my kids when they were tiny, it's almost like looking at different kids if you know what I mean.
It's like I had babies/small kids and now I have entirely different adults in my life who aren't related to those little kids at all.

Orangesinthebag · 17/04/2025 12:59

And don't get me started on how odd it is to see their Primary school friends now or my own friends' adult kids! 😱

alloftheothers · 17/04/2025 13:08

nightmarepickle2025 · 17/04/2025 11:48

The days are long but the years are short

Maybe this is true for some but it isn’t for me. It’s definitely been a long time since DS was born both in a literal and actual sense.

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