Sorry, its not really an AIBU so please don't be mad, this topic seems to be busier than the others for replies…
I am seriously considering leaving my husband. He is never home, never supportive and I am the only bread winner. I have fallen out of love with him and i think I did so three years ago when I found out he had been messaging other women, when I was at a very vulnerable stage in my life. The only thing is I am terrified of the effect it will have on the children. I know full well that husband would only move back in with his parents and older sister if we divorced. I have major, major issues with his sister (my SIL) and I am scared that every time the children would go to their dad’s (his parents house) she will be there. She has previously physically assaulted my husband, is violent, aggressive and just a terrible person. I do not want this woman to be influencing my children in any way, which is no doubt what will happen. At least now if I remain married to him I can keep them safe from her but I am deeply un-happy. Any advice? AIBU for wanting to protect my children from her? Is there anything I can do? Thank you.