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We call them all "half term" here..

501 replies

Acc0untant · 15/04/2025 10:27

And apparently I'm unreasonable. I see comment after comment about "it's not half term, that happens half way through each term" but ever since I was a child I, and everyone I know, calls each holiday a half term other than summer and Christmas. My parents and the parents of my friends (bearing in mind I'm in my 30s) have always done this.

Is it regional? I'm in the midlands. It's not just students/parents here, teachers use it this way, our school communications. Not even just my experience with one school, it was the same at my secondary school, my daughter's primary and secondary, my other child's nursery etc.

For us this is because we have a holiday after every half of a term, not that the holiday is half way within the term.

I appreciate that this wasn't the original intention of the phrase but at what point do we accept it's fine to use? Same as staycation originally meaning to do day trips from home rather than a UK holiday, it's now been used for both for so long that it's colloquially acceptable for both meanings.

Please no bun fights, I can't be bothered. I appreciate the pedantry with things such as this (and I can be that way with other stuff) but I'd really just like a nice, chilled conversation about it.

Do you say half term for almost all holidays? What region are you from? Would enjoy seeing if there's a correlation.

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SparklingPinot · 17/04/2025 07:51

I moved up north & it’s definitely regional because I’d not come across it before. I do find it mildly annoying. I’ve also heard whitsun week a lot, seemingly from religious schools.

Acc0untant · 17/04/2025 08:01

pearbottomjeans · 17/04/2025 07:31

Whooooooo caaaaaaaaaares

Thennnnnn whyyyyyy commenttttttt

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pearbottomjeans · 17/04/2025 08:03

Because its been like 17 pages since I originally commented and can’t believe its still going round in circles 😆 impressed you’re still here tbh OP, with the passion you have arisen in posters over this little issue!

Acc0untant · 17/04/2025 08:03

KiriG · 17/04/2025 03:28

We had lunch breaks with dinner ladies at school in Plymouth (80s/90s)

It's interesting that down south the evening meal is dinner but you have dinner ladies for the day time meal at school

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Everanewbie · 17/04/2025 09:03

Acc0untant · 17/04/2025 08:01

Thennnnnn whyyyyyy commenttttttt

Ricky Gervais "I don't want f'ing piano lessons!!!" springs to mind

Acc0untant · 17/04/2025 09:54

Everanewbie · 17/04/2025 09:03

Ricky Gervais "I don't want f'ing piano lessons!!!" springs to mind

I think it's guitar lessons but I totally agree 😂

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Shubbypubby · 17/04/2025 10:34

I’m up north and half term was always half through the term- around a week in Oct, Feb and May. In recent years I’ve noticed people calling more school holidays “half term” when they’re not. I think it’s incorrect (because it is- and illogical) but doesn’t bother me as such.

Shubbypubby · 17/04/2025 10:36

I don’t think it’s linked to the dinner/lunch and tea/dinner debate as they’re very old examples of regional differences and not illogical.

RaraRachael · 17/04/2025 10:41

Aren't lunch/dinner/tea supposedly class things?

I grew up calling them dinner and tea but now say lunch and dinner. But it's a regional thing, not class.

Acc0untant · 17/04/2025 11:01

Shubbypubby · 17/04/2025 10:36

I don’t think it’s linked to the dinner/lunch and tea/dinner debate as they’re very old examples of regional differences and not illogical.

No I agree, it was just a tangent about southerners calling it lunch but still having dinner ladies. Even though down south dinner is the evening meal.

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Scrimblescromble · 17/04/2025 11:09

Acc0untant · 16/04/2025 19:42

Ah so you're lunch and dinner rather than dinner and tea?
My southern friends "lovingly" laugh when I say tea and I mean the evening meal.

I wonder if they say lunch lady in schools down south rather than dinner lady.

Yes, I’m a ‘lunch and dinner’ person. First job up here in a shop and the manager was asking me to cover ‘dinner breaks’ and was baffled when I said she must’ve got my hours confused because I finish at 2!

We did have dinner ladies at lunch time! I hadn’t spotted that but as a kid I was puzzled why the people who supervised us were the dinner ladies and not the people who made the actual dinner! (I’m ND and always been a pedant!)

Xmasxrackers · 17/04/2025 11:22

Midlander here. Also call it half term.

cramptramp · 17/04/2025 11:56

It’s not half term though. It’s the end of a term. The new term starts at the end of the Easter school holiday.

EmmaEmEmz · 17/04/2025 12:01

I'm from the midlands and never heard anyone call them half terms, because they're not half terms. Half terms are the holidays half way through a term. Easter, summer and Xmas are the end of terms.

BottleBlondeMachiavelli · 17/04/2025 13:17

Acc0untant · 17/04/2025 11:01

No I agree, it was just a tangent about southerners calling it lunch but still having dinner ladies. Even though down south dinner is the evening meal.

It’s a class thing, not a north/south thing. WC Londoners very much say dinner/tea, especially the older generations.

BottleBlondeMachiavelli · 17/04/2025 13:18

Oblomov25 · 17/04/2025 06:41

It's not just a 'variance of language' like a dialect or accent. It's factually incorrect!

Yes, it’s like calling 1.30 “one o’clock”. The more I think about it, the most obvious it is that it’s not a regionalism. It’s just wrong. Obviously it’s caught on in some areas, but that’s contagion.

KiriG · 17/04/2025 15:52

Acc0untant · 17/04/2025 08:03

It's interesting that down south the evening meal is dinner but you have dinner ladies for the day time meal at school

Exactly. I say lunch and dinner for mid day meal and tea or dinner for the evening meal. I have grown up confused

pearbottomjeans · 17/04/2025 16:33

KiriG · 17/04/2025 15:52

Exactly. I say lunch and dinner for mid day meal and tea or dinner for the evening meal. I have grown up confused

I say lunch if cold and dinner if hot. Tea if cold and dinner if hot. BUT. Always Sunday lunch 🤷‍♀️

cardibach · 17/04/2025 16:46

Everydayimhuffling · 15/04/2025 10:29

It's regional. I moved to the midlands from elsewhere in the UK and was surprised by it at first. I don't know why people get such a bee in their bonnet about it though! It doesn't stop you understanding what people mean.

I grew up in the midlands and lots of friends and family still live there. It’s not regional unless it’s a teeny tiny bit of it - I never heard it (left in 2001) none of those still there use ‘half term’ for anything except half term holidays. Why would anyone? It makes no logical sense.

cardibach · 17/04/2025 16:52

MuddlingThroughLife · 15/04/2025 10:57

I'm from Cardiff and it's always been half term here apart from Summer and Christmas.

I’m in Cardiff now (near enough). No it isn’t. Not now anyway. Can’t speak for years ago, but I have family in the valleys and they wouldn’t do it.

cardibach · 17/04/2025 16:58

Acc0untant · 16/04/2025 19:03

Calling someone (or in this case lots of people, if this thread is anything to go by) a dumbass is unnecessary. If it makes you feel smarter to put other people down then it says more about you than others.

It’s not about feeling ‘smarter’ - it’s because it’s objectively inaccurate and a bit silly to call a holiday at the end of term a half term holiday.

latetothefisting · 17/04/2025 17:15

MuddlingThroughLife · 15/04/2025 10:57

I'm from Cardiff and it's always been half term here apart from Summer and Christmas.

I live in Cardiff and wouldn't say 'half term' for easter holidays.

"apart from" is disingenuous too, as it implies summer and christmas are the exceptions (so 4 out of 6 holidays are called half term) but nobody is arguing that the ACTUAL half terms should be called anything else!

So you're actually saying "all of the three longer school breaks are called half term except summer and christmas"
so....not 'all' of them - just one out of three, i.e. a minority, with the majority of the longer breaks are called by the name denoting when they occur.

Which you must see doesn't make any sense at all!

If people were saying they called EVERY holiday half term (e.g. October half term, Christmas half term, February half term, Easter half term, June half term, Summer half term) because, as per OPs logic " we have a holiday after every half of a term", it wouldn't be what I do, and I'd still think 'summer half term' sounds utterly weird BUT it would at least be consistent and have some sort of logic.

Saying "we call 1 out of 3 main holidays half term but not the other 2 despite them all meeting the critera of being a holiday after every half of a term" makes no sense at all!

Acc0untant · 17/04/2025 17:41

cardibach · 17/04/2025 16:58

It’s not about feeling ‘smarter’ - it’s because it’s objectively inaccurate and a bit silly to call a holiday at the end of term a half term holiday.

Lots of things are objectively incorrect, doesn't mean calling people dumbasses is suddenly acceptable.

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RaraRachael · 17/04/2025 17:46

Who actually uses the tearm "dumbass" anyway. Never heard anyone use it

Redpeach · 17/04/2025 17:50

Acc0untant · 17/04/2025 17:41

Lots of things are objectively incorrect, doesn't mean calling people dumbasses is suddenly acceptable.

Lots of things, like what?