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To get neighbours septic tank off my land?!

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Ladyoftheapple · 15/04/2025 10:21

My neighbours septic tank is in our back garden.
It is all a bit odd but basically before we moved in, the prior owner owned both houses.
Anyway, we recently replaced the manhole cover on top as it was quite corroded but in doing so could see that their septic tank was pretty full with poo (its comings probably about 100cm from the top). About a month ago we spoke to the neighbour to say it needed emptying. He also said he wanted to look as he doesn’t feel like he’s seen it before 😳 since then, he has not done anything about it. We have messaged since and he said he forgot and he will come around and look on the weekend which he did not.

As this is on our land and no benefit to us other than the hassle of asking him to empty it which he is yet to do!! Would it be wrong to get him to sort his own on his land?! Is this even possible?! I have young children running around in our garden. He had it emptied once when he moved in which was about 5 years ago 😳

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ArtTheClown · 17/04/2025 08:20

Again - leave a well-functioning septic tank alone. It might never need to be emptied if you look after it, whereas getting someone along to pump it out will not only cost someone unecessary money, it might damage its ecosystem.

OP you're the new arrival, clueless and demanding is a terrible look. You bought the house knowing the septic tank was there, you could have not bought it if it was going to trouble you so much.

Auchencar · 17/04/2025 08:51

How different does your own septic tank at the front of your house look when you lift that lid?

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