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Do I apply for a new job?…

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Undecided1234 · 14/04/2025 08:33

I am completely undecided!

I currently work in healthcare at the moment. I once did a guest lecture at a university and loved it.
I’ve recently seen an opening for a lecturer in my field and part of me wants to go for it, and part of me is really worried and I’m genuinely torn.

I like my job but here’s why I’d want to leave:

  • it’s in healthcare so of course you get people who are unhappy, complaints about waiting lists etc out of my control. I often get made to feel unworthy
  • It’s a 50 mile round trip every day, with no options to work from home. Spending a lot on petrol
  • I often feel really behind and always have work outstanding. I feel clinical work is tiring me out a lot
  • We’ve recently had some funding cuts and HR have been awful about the whole thing and treated us badly
  • The lecturing job starting salary is £8k more than I’m on now
  • I’m always tired and stressed about work. During the week I’m always bloated but when I went on holiday I wasn’t

However:

  • This lecturing job is also a 50 mile round trip, but potentially options to WFH
  • I’m good at my job now
  • My job recently gave me a specialist role in a niche field which I’ve slowly been building - id feel awful if I left now
  • I have a good relationship with my manager and if I left I’m worried the door would be closed if I don’t like the lecturing job
  • I currently work 8-4 and never stay late so I’m happy in that respect

I’m just completely completely torn!

YABU - keep the job
YANBU - go for it?

OP posts:
Undecided1234 · 14/04/2025 09:33

any advice would be appreciated!

OP posts:
Loubelou71 · 14/04/2025 10:35

I think you should apply and see what happens. If you successfully get the job it's only then you can consider it. Might be worth applying to see what happens. What's meant for you won't go by you and all that.

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