My colleague and I get on really well and we have children similar ages and have become good friends. We have started to meet up outside of work with our children. My dp and I rarely have family days out together because we end up arguing and the day is ruined before it’s even began. Before becoming friends with my colleague I mainly took the children out on my own, and do 99% of parenting solo. He doesn’t do school runs other than the few days a week he has to due to me being at work, doesn’t do appointments, cook or willingly voice he wants to do something unless I suggest it. My whole life is work and being a parent. I have other friends who i see occasionally but our children are different ages so just find myself taking the children out alone and now i have made a new friend with children similar ages to mine and we have the same interests it’s nice because we all have someone to talk to/ interact with when we go out. Anyway, today I have gone out with my friend and while i’m out he has messaged saying he’s not happy with how much time i’m spending with her and does she not have her own family. But if i didn’t go out today, i guarantee he would not have suggested we do something. Outside of work we catch up maybe 2/3 times a month so it’s not like it’s every weekend. Is his ‘annoyance’ valid?