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The poshest county in the UK?

435 replies

Eyes98 · 10/04/2025 22:57

Which one county would you say is the outright poshest in the UK? Let’s not use Greater London here, and I know there will be social diversity in all, but which would you say is the poshest overall?
I’m going with Berkshire, darling.😂

OP posts:
WillimNot · 11/04/2025 07:23

despairdespair · 10/04/2025 23:19

Kent,we have the best schools,and I live in a bubble where the celebrities live in a road that homes are worth 5-7 million quid. Lovely neighbours,so absolutely not bothered.
They are just people who go to same supermarkets and walk their friendly dogs.

Nah, Kent is screwed over by Medway
I grew up there..it's known for drugs and chavs.

Delphigirl · 11/04/2025 07:23

Sugargliderwombat · 11/04/2025 07:15

That's funny, I don't think of smart as a feature of being posh at all.

Smart is what smart people call posh which is a word they would never use.
its a social minefield 🤣

minnienono · 11/04/2025 07:24

There’s sections of many of the mentioned counties but all have much rougher underbellies too. Oxford its self has tough neighbourhoods, Gloucestershire has parts I would not recommend living, Surrey has very dodgy bits and so on. Tiny Rutland even isn’t all public schools!

marchblossom · 11/04/2025 07:24

WillimNot · 11/04/2025 07:20

Depends which bit of Berkshire.
Slough is awful now sadly, I think it was voted the saddest place to live in the UK recently

Parts of Reading are awful, crime ridden
Yes you Sonning and Henley but most of the rest is trying to stay posh and failing. I've lived across Berkshire for 20 years and it's definitely losing the posh undertones now.

Henley is Oxfordshire.

Dramatic · 11/04/2025 07:26

Surrey came to mind first.

I'd say Durham is the least posh

TheOnlyAletheia · 11/04/2025 07:27

I’d make the case for Norfolk. Lots of “old” money but lots of wealthy Home Counties folk in and around north and west Norfolk and a sprinkling of the super rich and arty. The rest of the county is pretty well to do. Norwich is naice. The only slight fly in the ointment is Yarmouth but that is miles from anywhere 😂

Meredusoleil · 11/04/2025 07:28

Trumpsgoneloco · 11/04/2025 06:51

Surrey has Croydon in it.

Not for decades

Enough said me thinks!

Croydon is a borough, some of it is fine, some isn't.

You're right - my mistake! Some of the postal addresses still use Surrey despite being in a London Borough.

FoxedByACat · 11/04/2025 07:29

sophiasnail · 11/04/2025 07:15

North Yorkshire. It's not the loud, brash, posh of most of these places mentioned.

Doesn’t it have Scarborough though? And Selby? 😁

TaggieO · 11/04/2025 07:31

Surrey

FilthyforFirth · 11/04/2025 07:31

Outrageous that Hampshire has got no love on this thread!

TheOnlyAletheia · 11/04/2025 07:32

PigglyWigglyOhYeah · 11/04/2025 06:50

I agree. A very high concentration of men wearing red trousers.

We call them “ancestral trousers” 😂 The more dirty they are, the posher the wearer 😂

Bushmillsbabe · 11/04/2025 07:32

Smidge001 · 10/04/2025 23:57

Slough isn't in Berkshire, it's in Bucks.

Slough used to be Bucks but now is Berks.

Moved to a south bucks village a few years ago, it is a lovely area to live

95percentcocoa · 11/04/2025 07:33

Warwickshire

Brutalist · 11/04/2025 07:33

Hard question to answer if you haven’t lived EVERYWHERE… But, Rutland is far from poshest in the country 😂

NotSayingImBatman · 11/04/2025 07:35

Middlesbrough/stockton/hartlepool.

So posh, they don’t have to follow the conventions of actually being in a county. They’re like royalty. Different rules to the plebs.

marchblossom · 11/04/2025 07:36

Lots of interesting thoughts. If you’ve mentioned ‘celebs’ and ‘footballers’ as part of the reasoning then yeah, not posh😂

Essex, Cheshire and Kent are extremely wealthy in parts but not at all posh.

I grew up in one of those ‘tougher’ Oxford suburbs. (And live up in the Cotswoldy bit now) None of them are as bad as people make out. Love where I grew up and still hang out there. The whole county is probably quite posh and desirable comparatively. The history makes it feel so.

But I’d probably go Buckinghamshire or Surrey tbh. Possibly Cornwall.

The poshest people I know (family crest, family tartan, landed-gentry-type-posh) do live in Oxon but are from Lincolnshire so perhaps that’s the real answer!

OudAndRose · 11/04/2025 07:37

Surrey and Berkshire tied.

We needed a poll OP!

Wintersgirl · 11/04/2025 07:40

FilthyforFirth · 11/04/2025 07:31

Outrageous that Hampshire has got no love on this thread!

Ooh I forgot lovely Hampshire, Winchester and the surrounding villages are rather posh!

Spirallingdownwards · 11/04/2025 07:40

Eyes98 · 10/04/2025 23:19

What would we all say about Cambridgeshire?

I live in Cambridge which would be posh (based on house prices) but much of Cambridgeshire is remarkably deprived eg Fenland, Peterborough.

BTW your choice of Berkshire has Slough - Deffo not posh.

I would go with Buckinghamshire and Surrey.

Toptotoe · 11/04/2025 07:40

Herefordshire

Notgoodatpoetrybutgreatatlit · 11/04/2025 07:41

I grew up in Cambridgeshire actually South Cambridgeshire which tends to feature in those best places to live magazine articles. I looked up the demographics of the village my parents lived in and it has the most weird statistics. The average educational qualification was PhD! I'm assuming it's something to do with its proximity to Cambridge. I know my Gran lived next to a retired Professor and her deputy as chair of the parish Council was another professor.
Maybe not posh but certainly knew how to spell. Gran still ran the village though.

Rewis · 11/04/2025 07:42

Royal County of Berkshire

Cause I've heard posh people say it out loud and it sounds very posh

Wintersgirl · 11/04/2025 07:43

5foot5 · 11/04/2025 00:20

Prestbury. But also Crewe

Maybe this is the case with all counties, so trying to identify the "poshest" is difficult

Yeah this is the point I made earlier, every county will have a posh and rough area..

Augustusjoop · 11/04/2025 07:44

Eyes98 · 10/04/2025 23:19

What would we all say about Cambridgeshire?

Definitely not!

muddyford · 11/04/2025 07:44

Rutland.

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