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AIBU to ask for help with 11 year old having to learn to take tablets?

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Newyearnewmewoooop · 10/04/2025 21:16

DD been prescribed sertraline for extreme anxiety. She just can’t get the hang of taking tablets and is having to chew them 🥴

We have practiced with tic tacs, but no joy. Tried putting in Nutella, hiding in grapes, no success

Does anyone have any advice 🙏

Im going to ask for it to be prescribed in liquid form next prescription, but that’s 3 weeks away

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ClarasZoo · 10/04/2025 21:47

Try practising by swallowing baked beans whole. Once you get the hang of that a tablet is much easier.

Kirbert2 · 10/04/2025 21:50

My 9 year old takes loperamide and gabapentin and it took some time but tic tacs worked eventually. I'd keep on trying.

strawlight · 10/04/2025 21:51

We cracked this recently with DD15. Put tablet in mouth, take a swig, puff cheeks out, swallow. The extra pressure seems to open the throat up wider. She’s gone from gagging every time to knocking them back very easily,

gottakeeponmoving · 10/04/2025 21:54

Use a drinking straw.

Landlubber2019 · 10/04/2025 21:55

I was told recently to drink via a straw, it helps the tablet go straight down no problem! Why has nobody shared this information with me before?

Readyforseptember · 10/04/2025 21:55

Came on to say try with milk not water, seems others have said the same!

Readyforseptember · 10/04/2025 21:55

Try with vitamin pills first

GetDownkeith · 10/04/2025 21:56

WompWompBoom · 10/04/2025 21:20

Take a big swig of fizzy pop/squash, and tip your head back so the pop is held in your mouth, open mouth, drop tablet in and immediately gulp. I'm rubbish at tablets and still take them this way in my 40s.

This is similar is similar to how I got dd to take tablets she was an absolute nightmare to teach but with liquid already in her mouth then pop the tablet in then drink more water because her mouth was already full she had to swallow what was there and the tablet went with it.
she’s 22 now and could swallow a dry horse pill.

Newyearnewmewoooop · 10/04/2025 21:57

Sorry I should have said in post, she’s autistic with very limited diet 🫣

the tablets are very bitter and not coated

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Newyearnewmewoooop · 10/04/2025 21:58

Won’t drink fizzy pop, milk etc, only water! Also won’t eat yoghurt so can’t mix in that 🫣

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Frowningprovidence · 10/04/2025 22:00

Newyearnewmewoooop · 10/04/2025 21:57

Sorry I should have said in post, she’s autistic with very limited diet 🫣

the tablets are very bitter and not coated

My son is autistic too. I think it was alder hey hospital that had a leaflet on helping a chikd take tablets ((it had bread and sprinkles as an idea)

Newyearnewmewoooop · 10/04/2025 22:02

Some great ideas here thank you so much everyone!

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Rapunzelrella · 10/04/2025 22:06

I had this problem as a kid and teen, and crushed everything into ice cream. I finally cracked it by putting them on my tongue and glugging a whole pint of water. When I tried to take them with some careful sips it just didn't work and they hit the back of my throat and I just gagged. However, by just continuing to glug in massive gulps it got them down. Tic tacs are probably too big to start with, or they would have been for me anyway. I reckon you need something half that size and smooth to practice. Almost like a very small vitamin tablet. Good luck. I do remember the horror of it and feeling convinced I would choke.

Themagicfarawaytreeismyfav · 10/04/2025 22:24

Fizzy drink! You can’t feel the tablet go down

quintessentially166 · 10/04/2025 22:25

WompWompBoom · 10/04/2025 21:20

Take a big swig of fizzy pop/squash, and tip your head back so the pop is held in your mouth, open mouth, drop tablet in and immediately gulp. I'm rubbish at tablets and still take them this way in my 40s.

Ditto but I use milk 😊

GrassWillBeGreener · 10/04/2025 22:25

A variation on using a straw is using a sports drink bottle, and three good swallows. This is being recommended eg Pill school
(Hope I've managed the link right)

Agree that tictacs are a little big to start with although you've got the right idea to use sweets. Look at cake decorations to find smaller practice sweets - hundreds and thousands, cake sprinkles then bigger ones.

A different suggestion is what my daughter came up with as a child - put the tablet just under the tip of your tongue then take a drink. I tried it and was surprised how much better it worked than my normal technique.

Good luck!

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JustJoinedRightNow · 10/04/2025 22:28

OP will she eat raw carrot? I taught my sons to take tablets by cutting up pieces of raw carrot (which they like) into the exact size of the tablet. If they couldn't swallow they simply chewed until we practiced enough times to swallow it whole and then put the actual tablet in. It's like their throats and minds needed the practice before the real thing.

BrollyGood · 10/04/2025 22:29

Just contact the prescriber your child can't swallow and ask for the liquid prescription. There's no need to wait 3 weeks.

CarefulN0w · 10/04/2025 22:30

There are some resources here. I am fairly sure I’ve seen a short video, maybe from a pharma company, I’ll keep trying to remember for you!

Starlight7080 · 10/04/2025 22:33

Had the same problem with both dd and they still can take a while taking them. The only think that has worked is tablet then water head back . Sometime they take extra sips and can take them the best part of a Minto actually swallow them. But it's much better then when they started with tablets. Both autistic.
I kept on with tablets as I have seen first hand adults who refuse to take tablets and it causes a lot of hassle . Especially if ever admitted to hospital for anything.
I know one woman who won't take tablets and also makes her dh crush her tablets as she won't even do that for herself. She gets hysterical.

Pricelessadvice · 10/04/2025 22:38

I sympathise. I couldn’t take tablets for years and I had a childhood illness that required me to have a lot. I used to have them in a jam sandwich-
yuk!! It put me off jam for years!

Best trick is to take them with a bottle drink rather than a glass. This helps a lot. Try splitting them into 2 halves if possible.

Also, people tell you to put them at the back of your mouth but I’ve never found this helpful. They’d just end up coming to the front and panicking me. I prefer to just sit them near the tip of my tongue and then drink from a bottle. They just seem to go down easily that way.

I can now swallow pretty big tablets but if you’d known me as a child you’d never have thought I’d get to this stage.

Serencwtch · 10/04/2025 22:39

A spoonful of yogurt, custard, trifle etc to help swallow them works for most kids

Idunno8 · 10/04/2025 22:41

Water or (thicker drink preferably) in your mouth first, then pop tablet in then another sip then swallow. Start off with milkshake or the like, it’ll be hidden in that well.

Moier · 10/04/2025 22:43

JoshLymanSwagger · 10/04/2025 21:22

I've always struggled with tablets.
I was advised by a nurse to take them with milk, because it's "thicker" iyswim, than water/squash.
I wouldn't take them with anything fizzy. Sometime carbonated drinks react with the tablet and it's really unpleasant.
Fingers crossed that with a little practice she'll be fine.

That's wrong.. you can't take with milk.. protein effects them.

AdditionalCharacter · 10/04/2025 22:44

Will she use a straw? When my (ND) son was 3, he had to take slow release melatonin, only comes in tablet form. We tried everything, what worked for us was putting the tablet in his mouth, then making him drink from a straw in big mouthfuls. He's 20 now and still takes tablets with a straw.

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