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To wonder why it is so difficult to borrow money to buy a house

138 replies

Stressmode · 10/04/2025 17:53

So I want to buy a house for 225k. I am 25k short. I can’t get a mortgage on the house because it needs restoration. I am capable of doing the restoration. How can I borrow 25k? I can easily make the repayments from my income. I could get a personal loan… but they all specify that they are not to be spent on property.

it seems batshit crazy that I could take out the personal loan and spend it on holidays!

OP posts:
Sofiewoo · 10/04/2025 20:05

AquaPeer · 10/04/2025 19:57

How on earth do you know? Why wouldn’t OP be capable of making that decision herself?

you know nothing about her, maybe OP is a builder. You have no idea how much needs doing, how much materials are needed or if OP needs to live in the house whilst she does it up. Bloody hell 😭

How do I know? Because she’s literally posting about being £25k short. Have you read the thread? It’s the whole point!

AquaPeer · 10/04/2025 20:08

Sofiewoo · 10/04/2025 20:05

How do I know? Because she’s literally posting about being £25k short. Have you read the thread? It’s the whole point!

No she’s posted very clearly to say she has the income and qualifications to do restoration herself. She HAS said this.

she is simply £25k short of cash for the purchase. This is easy for her to borrow and easy for her to repay. But strictly speaking, no personal loan provider will lend her the cash for this purpose. Which is what she’s expressing annoyance about.

thats what she’s posting about.

if she did just get a £25k mortgage you wouldn’t be saying she couldn’t afford it. What’s the difference?

JasonTindallsTan · 10/04/2025 20:19

Sofiewoo · 10/04/2025 19:48

If its not mortgageable then its not livable and its not a small amount of work. If you cant afford the extra £25k on the purchase price you cant afford the renovation either.

Huh? Surely that means no people who take out a mortgage can afford to buy a house that needs renovating?

Stressmode · 10/04/2025 20:20

Yup, just super frustrating that I can borrow 25k in literally 3 clicks and no questions asked. I could spend that on cocaine and gin and no one would care. Just they won’t let me put it towards a house! The world is insane.

OP posts:
whoopdeedoo · 10/04/2025 20:26

Honestly, how are they going to know what you spend it on? They also won’t care as long as you are meeting repayments.

CozyCoupe · 10/04/2025 21:03

Sofiewoo · 10/04/2025 19:55

@AquaPeer Her finances have told her she can’t have the house, not me.
If a property isn’t eligible for a mortgage from basically all lenders then it’s pretty much condemned and the amount of work needed to make it habitable will be huge and extremely costly wherever you are in the country. It’s simply not the sort of renovation you can find from month to month with no large cash injection.

Edited

Nah this is rubbish. It could simply be unmortgageable because it doesn't have what is deemed as a functioning kitchen - certainly doesn't have to be 'condemned!!'.

EmeraldRoulette · 10/04/2025 22:07

Stressmode · 10/04/2025 20:20

Yup, just super frustrating that I can borrow 25k in literally 3 clicks and no questions asked. I could spend that on cocaine and gin and no one would care. Just they won’t let me put it towards a house! The world is insane.

if there's no questions asked then why do you worry about it? Just get the loan.

Shallana · 10/04/2025 23:17

When we bought our house, the only check into the source of our deposit was literally being asked where the money was coming from. 'Savings' was accepted as an answer. OP, I would just take a loan out for another reason and distribute it amongst savings accounts prior to the purchase.

maddening · 10/04/2025 23:18

Bridging loan?

Stressmode · 10/04/2025 23:34

EmeraldRoulette · 10/04/2025 22:07

if there's no questions asked then why do you worry about it? Just get the loan.

I have no idea how deep they will dig down when they do the checks on the source of the money… and if that will alert the lender :(

OP posts:
bridgetreilly · 10/04/2025 23:48

I think a pp’s suggestion of a trusted friend or relative really could work. If they took out the loan, then gifted you the money, I don’t think there would be a problem putting towards the house. There would be tax on it, though, I think.

EmeraldRoulette · 10/04/2025 23:56

Stressmode · 10/04/2025 23:34

I have no idea how deep they will dig down when they do the checks on the source of the money… and if that will alert the lender :(

Ah I see. Maybe post on the legal or money sections here. Ask if mortgage lenders are alerted of any other loans you try to take out when you're applying.

That said, I know my buyer had to have some of his checks redone because he took so effing long to buy my flat!

May09Bump · 11/04/2025 00:11

It is fraud - you are not using for the loan for the purpose disclosed and for property which you say is an excluded use.

However, when Solicitors check where the money is coming from, from my experience you disclose it's from a personal loan, you show them the loan letter and the movement of money into your account. I've never been asked for the loan's terms & conditions or to sign any declaration that I have met the loans terms & conditions.

There is no mortgage needed - so no implications on reducing lending for a mortgage.

whoopdeedoo · 11/04/2025 15:16

It’s not fraud..it would be a breach of the terms of the loan (presumably the remedy for which would be immediate recall but that’s unlikely if repayments are being made on time) but no one is being defrauded!

OP I would say it is to repay credit card debt and purchase of furniture. The effect is the same. Create debt on a 0% card if necessary, with all your day to day expenses, putting the equivalent into a savings account.

yugflalska · 11/04/2025 15:20

Sorry I haven’t read the replies but I don’t understand, I was looking at Tesco loans the other day (that go up to £25,000) and home improvements is one of the options?

titchy · 11/04/2025 15:31

Im confused then. I thought you were buying the house with existing cash. Do you not in fact have enough cash to buy it, hence the loan? I was under the impression you only needed the loan for the restoration? So you do need a mortgage?

In which case you need to go to a specialist mortgage provider - they do exist. Self builders use them.

Sofiewoo · 11/04/2025 15:41

Stressmode · 10/04/2025 23:34

I have no idea how deep they will dig down when they do the checks on the source of the money… and if that will alert the lender :(

The lender doing checks on the source of the money?
I thought the house was not able to have a mortgage taken on it?
Yes if you’re taking a mortgage and still 25k short the lender will absolutely be able to see that a substantial chunk of your deposit comes from a loan and you won’t be able to borrow the same amount.
They don’t need to dig that deep.

whoopdeedoo · 11/04/2025 16:43

Omg how many times does it need to be said-no mortgage to be taken out, renovations to be done by OP. Only debt involved is the £25k personal loan needed to top up the OP’s cash for her to pay for the property purchase.

Sofiewoo · 11/04/2025 16:49

whoopdeedoo · 11/04/2025 16:43

Omg how many times does it need to be said-no mortgage to be taken out, renovations to be done by OP. Only debt involved is the £25k personal loan needed to top up the OP’s cash for her to pay for the property purchase.

OP is the one who said they were worried the “source of the money” coming from a loan would alert the lender though.

yugflalska · 11/04/2025 16:52

whoopdeedoo · 11/04/2025 16:43

Omg how many times does it need to be said-no mortgage to be taken out, renovations to be done by OP. Only debt involved is the £25k personal loan needed to top up the OP’s cash for her to pay for the property purchase.

So why isn’t she just getting a personal loan? Tesco do home improvements as a reason? I don’t understand this thread!

AquaPeer · 11/04/2025 16:55

yugflalska · 11/04/2025 16:52

So why isn’t she just getting a personal loan? Tesco do home improvements as a reason? I don’t understand this thread!

The loan isn’t for home improvements, it’s to purchase the house.

AquaPeer · 11/04/2025 16:56

Sofiewoo · 11/04/2025 16:49

OP is the one who said they were worried the “source of the money” coming from a loan would alert the lender though.

Not the lender, the solicitor (or estate agent) doing anti fraud checks. But it’ll be fine, this isn’t what they’re looking for. They’re looking for money laundering 😂

yugflalska · 11/04/2025 17:00

AquaPeer · 11/04/2025 16:55

The loan isn’t for home improvements, it’s to purchase the house.

Oooh sorry, I thought it the renovations she mentioned. I understand the frustration now!

Sofiewoo · 11/04/2025 17:06

AquaPeer · 11/04/2025 16:56

Not the lender, the solicitor (or estate agent) doing anti fraud checks. But it’ll be fine, this isn’t what they’re looking for. They’re looking for money laundering 😂

The OP said lender though.

jimmyhill · 11/04/2025 17:14

This is an amazing thread!

The OP doesn't need a mortgage! SHE DOESN'T NEED A MORTGAGE.

SHE. DOESN'T. NEED. A. MORTGAGE.

She just needs a special kind of loan that can be used to purchase a property she can't quite afford, as personal loans don't allow this.

Therefore, it is agreed that her best solution is fraud.