Family friend's daughter getting married. My mother (I am very low contact, would rather not get into this) said she was given an invitation for me but hasn't sent this/ a photo for confirmation. Relationship has deteriorated since due to her behaviour.
I do not have the energy for health reasons to get in touch with my mother.
Would it be ok to contact the b&g directly. To check whether there is indeed an invitation and the details? The issue is if my mother has made some mistake (not entirely unlikely) and the invitation was not for me. I could reassure them no awkwardness if there is no invitation, I just didn't want to keep them waiting for numbers if there is. The type of wedding means it's likely I am invited (more the merrier rather than limited places).
I don't really want to contact the MOB. Lovely but close to my mother and makes clear we are not in touch.