I know IBU so im not even going to vote but does anyone else have a workplace crush that is completely pointless but just make the day go a bit faster?
He is married, I am married, he has children, I have children- there are no pointers that there is any attraction there or flirting so not going down that route.
I just find myself looking forward to him walking into my office (my office is ‘base’ and we have an in/ out whiteboard) , I seem to sit up straighter … make sure I’ve not got a mouthful of something 😂 , and smile more when he’s chatting to me.
Its absolutely ridiculous and I’m sure he doesn’t think twice about the whole thing so surely no harm done and I’m not the only middle aged something women with the same scenario?