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To think our towns and cities are just so run down lately, and our standard of living has decreased significantly?

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blahhhhg · 08/04/2025 16:42

I don't know if I'm just feeling a bit down and bitter lately but I just feel like lately our country seems to have gotten very run down. I went out into town today and couldn't help but notice how grotty and rundown everything looks. Litter everywhere, security guards everywhere - in nearly every clothing shop there is security on the door now, security wandering up and down the high street. It makes you feel really unsafe but they must be there for a reason now? Shops are dirty; filthy floors and used Starbucks cups just left off the shelf for some poor worker to clean up. Clothes for sale that are covered in makeup stains. I just found it really depressing. It's just not one town either, I've noticed it nearly everywhere I've been. I'm in my late 20s so it's not like I've had decades of life experience to draw from and I have a rose-tinted view of yesteryear, but it seems that in the last 5ish years things have really declined.

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Minecraftvsroblox · 08/04/2025 22:51

sharkanado · 08/04/2025 22:24

@Lonelycrab I just don't get how so many can't see the damage it's caused.

The same reason why they voted to leave they didn't get it then and they don't get it now. Those are the people that voted.

sharkanado · 08/04/2025 22:53

That's just poor excuses. I'm sorry but they wouldn't treat their homes that way. They would just eat something on the sofa and drop the rubbish on the floor next to them. They wouldn't spit on their carpet emor floor either.

I believe some would!

Doubtmyselff · 08/04/2025 22:54

UndermyShoeJoe · 08/04/2025 22:32

Thing is to fix the country will have so many changes and nobody would like them all.

Its easy to fix this country, bring back fair taxation, we had it in the 50s and 60s, stop turning the country into a playground for global millionaires who pay fuck all tax.

Its really that simple, but the very rich own the political parties, be that Cons, Labour or Reform or even Lib Dems. Maybe the only ones not owned by the very rich are the Greens, and they aren't getting elected anytime soon.

LetsGoFlyAKiteee · 08/04/2025 22:54

Luton could be nice though except it just seems a lot of concrete in the town centre. And some random culture corner that not sure is trying to acheive..

Guess same as anywhere though. Im Dunstable and it seems they've tried to make nice by putting random giant plant pots and grass bears here and there but in odd places and haven't added much to anything. Just a variety of barbers and nail bars and shops that are empty.

User46576 · 08/04/2025 23:05

JacquesHarlow · 08/04/2025 17:28

It’s also worth me sharing the obvious which is that Amazon and friends have been allowed to set up shop and pay 0% tax due to their clever corporate structure..

Meanwhile the effect this has on medium income to low income areas becomes staggering

Hardware stores, clothing stores, electronic shops, department stores, all closing. this has a knock on effect for other shops which fed off this ecosystem.

For towns and villages which have people with discretionary income who want to buy hand made clothing and expensive food, they will still thrive because people will use it or lose it.

But overall, the lack of government policy on Amazon and its contemporaries is staggering.

imagine if Amazon was taxed properly and the money reinvested in high streets

Amazon doesn’t pay 0% tax due to a “clever corporate structure” or otherwise. But it doesn’t need stores due to its online structure. But it would make no money if we didn’t all want to shop online

User46576 · 08/04/2025 23:10

Doubtmyselff · 08/04/2025 22:54

Its easy to fix this country, bring back fair taxation, we had it in the 50s and 60s, stop turning the country into a playground for global millionaires who pay fuck all tax.

Its really that simple, but the very rich own the political parties, be that Cons, Labour or Reform or even Lib Dems. Maybe the only ones not owned by the very rich are the Greens, and they aren't getting elected anytime soon.

Public sector spending and taxation is greater now than it was inthe 70s and 80s In inflation adjusted terms.

Sunbeam01 · 08/04/2025 23:11

Yes it's all very depressing.

TrixieFatell · 08/04/2025 23:12

I think I'm quite lucky where I live. It used to be quite a rough town with a bad reputation but it's really improved now. We have issues with littering etc but our local Facebook group always have litter pickups being organised and we have councillors posting what they have done. We live near a forest so we have lovely green areas to go to. I've recently joined a group about improving our local park. Our town centre isn't the best but I think that's the case everywhere, but they have built some new retail parks where most people go. We lost our indoor market sadly but they have started an outdoor weekday one which is nice to see. The schools are mainly good here too.

I remember how grim it used to be so for me it has improved

Lonelycrab · 08/04/2025 23:13

Have to confess the one single policy I’ve seen from reform around Amazon and deliveries in general that is imo a good idea, is to tax deliveries at 1 or 2 % and to reinvest that revenue into the high street.

That seems to be an unavoidable way of taxing those corporations and would help level the playing field a bit. Sure, we have to pay more but it’s a price worth paying for a viable high street.

Bingbopboomboomboombopbam · 08/04/2025 23:22

While I agree that there’s a weird vibe all around generally, but when it comes to the lack of/subpar upkeep of shops etc I think it’s been like that for ages.

I’ve been living in the UK for a little over 10 years now and I’ve always found it shocking so I don’t think it’s any worse. I don’t know if it’s because the employees tend to be younger in these places or what, it’s just not great. What is better here in terms of manners/consideration, then lacks in cleanliness.

In terms of littering it’s an educational problem. I live near a busy bus stop close to a local high school and kids leave it filthy on the daily. There’s no reason for it, but then again kids here also seem fine in sitting on filthy floors like it’s nothing. I swear they’re built different.

Allthegoodnamesarechosen · 08/04/2025 23:28

‘And that was certainly noticeable to me when I went to Paris last summer. Used to be that London was clean and pleasant whereas Paris was dirty and a bit unkempt. Now London is covered in litter and crumbling pavements, but Paris has had a glow up and is green, tidy, clean and eco-friendly! Plus you see constant litter removers and street-cleaning and washing machines out in Paris everywhere! It was quite a novelty, as I literally can’t remember the last time I saw a street in the UK being washed and cleaned.’

Paris had a massive clear up for the Olympics. I read they moved literally hundreds of squatters’ tents from the centre, they bussed the people out to remote country districts where there were barracks and holiday camps ( they didn’t stay). Recently a theatre in the centre was occupied by hundreds of migrants from French speaking African countries, the district was paralysed by noise, shoplifting, squatting in the hotels and restaurants. It was finally cleared a couple of weeks ago….but the French, like us, have no long term solution.

Even when I lived in France ( we left in 2019) many of the smaller towns had lost virtually all their shops and were shadows of themselves. People just used the out of town shed strips instead. They were not dirty, but that was because they were empty.

Europe has a lot of similar problems to UK, although the greater landmass of many countries does mean you can still move around.

snappopcrackle · 08/04/2025 23:33

Silsatrip · 08/04/2025 17:35

They don't clean the streets either. Rely on the rain to clean them? You go to hotter countries and early in the morning they are out washing down pedestrian streets etc.

Make park areas and don't maintain them or police them so they become drug dealing areas.

Raise rents so all the shops close and dodgy ones open...are they just a front?

I feel bad for when I shopped online but so many times I went to a shop and couldn't get what I wanted/ told to order online ...it doesn't encourage you to make the trek to a shop.

Agree with OP and this too. I noticed when I was traveling in another European country earlier this year how they had cleaner streets.

I can’t drive but I don’t find it enjoyable walking around my area because of how grotty a lot of the streets and the nearest parks to me don’t look great. Too many people hanging around who look as if they may be on drugs often with not pleasant looking dogs.

And my town is middle of the road, Not posh but not known for being rough either.

Since I moved here a few years ago so many of the high street stores have closed leaving us with more vape shops which sucks and adds to the general feeling of gradual disrepair and neglect

stargazingortryingto · 08/04/2025 23:34

User46576 · 08/04/2025 23:10

Public sector spending and taxation is greater now than it was inthe 70s and 80s In inflation adjusted terms.

Regarding spending, I wonder if that is because the state no longer owns anything, and so has to buy services from the private sector, who now do own all the assets. For example, local authorities have no housing, so they have to pay eye watering sums to private landlords, which pushes expenditure up.

ETA there is a lot of tax paid on work, too much in my opinion. However, there is very little tax paid on wealth, which seems to me to be where the issue is. I think there should be a tax on wealth (by which I mean those with assets over £10million), with the revenue raised helping to counteract some of the effects of our increasingly unequal society.

User46576 · 08/04/2025 23:40

Lonelycrab · 08/04/2025 23:13

Have to confess the one single policy I’ve seen from reform around Amazon and deliveries in general that is imo a good idea, is to tax deliveries at 1 or 2 % and to reinvest that revenue into the high street.

That seems to be an unavoidable way of taxing those corporations and would help level the playing field a bit. Sure, we have to pay more but it’s a price worth paying for a viable high street.

If we don’t want to shop in the high street, why should more successful businesses be taxed to subsidize the less successful? There’s been a shift in retail the same as when supermarkets became a thing. The high street will need to change but if we’re not spending our money there, it should shut ir become something else. We need better planning though for good community spaces

User46576 · 08/04/2025 23:45

stargazingortryingto · 08/04/2025 23:34

Regarding spending, I wonder if that is because the state no longer owns anything, and so has to buy services from the private sector, who now do own all the assets. For example, local authorities have no housing, so they have to pay eye watering sums to private landlords, which pushes expenditure up.

ETA there is a lot of tax paid on work, too much in my opinion. However, there is very little tax paid on wealth, which seems to me to be where the issue is. I think there should be a tax on wealth (by which I mean those with assets over £10million), with the revenue raised helping to counteract some of the effects of our increasingly unequal society.

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No, it’s primarily because our population has aged significantly. The fact we don’t subsidize vastly inefficient public owned industries anymore is an improvement in the public finances not a worsening. The public sector tend to do a very poor job of running businesses- we are all wealthier thanks to privatization.

Lonelycrab · 09/04/2025 00:00

User46576 · 08/04/2025 23:45

No, it’s primarily because our population has aged significantly. The fact we don’t subsidize vastly inefficient public owned industries anymore is an improvement in the public finances not a worsening. The public sector tend to do a very poor job of running businesses- we are all wealthier thanks to privatization.

Well the privatisation of our water companies hasn’t made us wealthier has it. It’s given us record breaking bills and disgustingly polluted waterways.

Lonelycrab · 09/04/2025 00:01

And the privatisation of our rail network has resulted in some of the most expensive trains in the world, as well as unreliable.

TizerorFizz · 09/04/2025 00:05

@Lonelycrab That’s because users pay for them. The taxpayer used to subsidise too much and believe if or not, British Rail was a nightmare. Ancient trains and poor service everywhere. It’s better now but younger people have no idea how bad it was. Like much of our infrastructure, it’s aging. That’s the problem. Plus drivers who don’t want or need to work at weekends.

Whalesong · 09/04/2025 00:08

blahhhhg · 08/04/2025 19:08

I'm in the South-East for context. I agree with all the barber shops and vape shops... Also the American candy shops and tech shops that sell things like phone cases that you never see anyone buy. It's very depressing. I also agree with some of you who have said there is a weird, aggressive energy about, I think it begun during the pandemic. Like if you looked at someone the wrong way a fight would break out. Drivers are more aggressive, even dog owners seem to be more aggressive and shouty.

I understand that councils have to spend most of their budget on social care - and this issue is going to only get worse. It feels like we're heading towards some kind of societal collapse...

The American Candy shops are fronts for drug money-laundering. That's well known and they get shut down regularly.

Crikeyalmighty · 09/04/2025 00:13

It doesn’t seem to be allowed to state that in many places that plenty of us live we have a predominantly white population - but still have the same issues- this is because whilst immigration may have issues with regard to social things like housing, education etc - the overall couldn’t give a shit attitude is across all colours and creeds

Crikeyalmighty · 09/04/2025 00:19

Being boring and going back to when we lived in Copenhagen - we used to come back to UK every 5 weeks for work stuff and the contrast hit us every time. You simply didn’t see the amount of feral families and I don’t think I ever saw litter in the way it is here. Most kids were in very nice and very cheap day care from about 10 months and both parents worked but less hours - we used to say the UK felt like the Wild West in comparison-

KimberleyClark · 09/04/2025 00:24

User46576 · 08/04/2025 23:45

No, it’s primarily because our population has aged significantly. The fact we don’t subsidize vastly inefficient public owned industries anymore is an improvement in the public finances not a worsening. The public sector tend to do a very poor job of running businesses- we are all wealthier thanks to privatization.

Yes the private sector did a fantastic job of running the railways didn’t it. And it’s still doing a fantastic job of the water industry. Our rivers have never been cleaner and less polluted.

mydogfarts · 09/04/2025 00:28

stargazingortryingto · 08/04/2025 23:34

Regarding spending, I wonder if that is because the state no longer owns anything, and so has to buy services from the private sector, who now do own all the assets. For example, local authorities have no housing, so they have to pay eye watering sums to private landlords, which pushes expenditure up.

ETA there is a lot of tax paid on work, too much in my opinion. However, there is very little tax paid on wealth, which seems to me to be where the issue is. I think there should be a tax on wealth (by which I mean those with assets over £10million), with the revenue raised helping to counteract some of the effects of our increasingly unequal society.

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It's exactly that. People making a huge profit providing public services. And councils still need staff and lawyers to manage all the contracts so not much money is actually saved.

Plus a huge explosion in people needing very expensive support.
So the SEN education cost is up hugely, supported living and social care up hugely, so councils have to hack all over costs to the bone. So maintenance of highways, playgrounds etc is cut (but that leads to more claims so is a false economy), public services like libraries and bus services are cut.

Massive devastating cuts but the bill keeps rising because there are lots of businesses out there creaming profits from providing "public services"

TempestTost · 09/04/2025 00:38

User46576 · 08/04/2025 23:05

Amazon doesn’t pay 0% tax due to a “clever corporate structure” or otherwise. But it doesn’t need stores due to its online structure. But it would make no money if we didn’t all want to shop online

The difficult thing is that I think most of us are very implicated in it all. We all shop online for the cheapest deals. We all want cheap food. Many of us spend quite a lot on cheap consumables with no lasting value. That doesn't just represent our money, people somewhere are using their time and energy to make that crap, or get rid of that crap, instead of doing something useful.

OneAmberFinch · 09/04/2025 00:44

lavenderlou · 08/04/2025 20:28

So what immigration would you like to stop? The vast, vast majority of immigration to the UK is fully legal and government approved - shortage workers, students. They all need to live somewhere.

Fully legal immigration IS the problem.

A very small minority of legal immigration is for shortage occupations. Unless you think we have a shortage of takeaway shop managers and IT body shop developers. It's a complete joke to get in, you can walk in and everyone outside the UK targets it knowing it's so easy to get in and there are no caps.

Ask me how I know! Signed, an immigrant.

PS: from next year the massive spike of people who came in after the relaxation of the rules post-Brexit (thanks Boris) will all be eligible for ILR and therefore benefits, so even they won't have to bother being care workers any more. Perhaps they will spend their newfound free time on volunteering for the village litter picking club though so that'll solve OP's issue :)

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