Is this the right place for this ?

[Yellowtang25]

Is it ok he put a cigarette out on my hand
I just don’t know anymore

You're underthinking it but I'm guessing there's a huge backstory as no one thinks that's OK

Rollie burn or no Rollie burn, he's an asshole! Get out when you can OP

I'm assuming that this isn't the first time this has happened?
That you've been physically hurt before?

No - it is far from ok that it happened.
You need to find somewhere safe.

No. Get away from him now. Go to the police.

Maybe OP is asking why it’s happening to them and why the perpetrator thinks it’s okay to do it to them! Have a little empathy.

OP you need to leave that person, it’s not your fault and it is wrong to do that to you under any circumstances.

No sweetheart, it’s not ok. You don’t deserve that.

I would guess that this isn’t the first time he’s hurt you, is it? Do you have family or a friend nearby that you can go to?x

If you are even questioning this, that is a REALLY bad sign, sweetheart. He’s made you feel like you are not worth treating like a human being, let alone the most important person for him. Please walk away, at the very least just to take a break and get your head in a better place. Stop trying to minimise the fact that he burned you. That is abuse and it’s never okay.

No. She’s asking if it’s okay. She knows full well it isn’t.

Faux innocence, a victim mentality and burying her head in the sand will not help her here.

@TheJollyMoosethat judgemental approach won’t help either it’s that which prevents a lot of psychologically damaged individuals from escaping domestic violence

I am questioning this, I just don’t know what’s ok anymore