Friend cut off

[Creek2025]

A friend well someone who I thought was a friend I’ve know a few years had a go at me saying I was going around saying things wouldn’t tell me who or what was said 2 months on and hasn’t spoken to me, other people have said I think she should at least tell me what I have meant to of said yet she refuses to not wanting to get the said other person in trouble.

would you message her ? She has caused trouble in the past with others so I do think she is a bit toxic I just don’t see why I should be chasing her

Is she right? Were you saying things about her? If so, apologise. If you've said nothing about her, move on.

Is she asking you to chase her? It sounds like she doesn't want to be your friend anymore. You don't have to be friends with her.

No I honestly haven’t said anything this is what’s annoying it’s very awkward as we have a friendship group who we see a lot.

I think she should at least tell me what I have meant to of said yet she refuses to not wanting to get the said other person in trouble.

Sounds like she’s lying and just looking for an excuse to fall out with you and create drama within the friendship group.

Just ignore her. Don’t be friends with such a sly twat.

She had told another friend she wanted to meet yet still hadn’t spoken to me and will not tell her what’s been said I don’t see why I should be chasing her she wouldn’t tell me when I kept asking her when she initially had a go at me it’s so bizarre.

Because no one has said anything, she’s just a drama llama.

You’re right not to chase her. Block her on your phone and on social media.

I’m feel at the point now I just also feel very awkward as we have birthdays etc coming up and she will be there it just seems so childish but yes I actually thought the same she has made something up I her head.

It is probably just this person looking for an excuse to fall out with you. Is there any chance though that another person in the group is stirring? You havent said anything but has someone else in the group been lying and told this friend you've said xyz?

Don't bother messaging her. If the other people who have said she should have had it out with you, are also going to be at the birthdays etc, then you know you've got support. When you do see her, just ignore her. If you end up back mixing with her, this will just happen again.

I dont think so tbh as a few people have asked her and she still won’t say to them I even said to her lets speak to said person now if they here or call them when she was having a go at me and she wouldn’t I just can’t understand as an adult any of it. It’s just going to be quite uncomfortable when we have socials on and a shame to lose a friendship.

Hold your head up high and attend every social (except her birthday). And do not invite her to your birthday. You’ve done nothing wrong, I suspect everyone knows she’s making it up.

This is the sort of behaviour id expect from a 10 year old.