I'm on two LA steering groups at work (AP development and EBSNA), work with the parent carer forum in my work LA as a link and my home LA as a parent rep. I volunteer my time to a group run by my local MP to lobby the government on SEND reforms, am the SEND Governor at my son's school as well as working 50 hours min a week and being parent to 3 SEND kids. What about you? Enough to leave me physically and mentally broken to be honest but if I don't who will? Someone bitching that their caseworker is a cow ...that's going to achieve sweet FA.
It's a lot more than someone who is in a couple of parent FB groups, reads special needs jungle and bitches on MN (not saying you but plenty on here clearly met that description).
Like many of you, I have navigated nearly 20 years of being a SEND parent with 3 children wth SEND (actually that's a lot more than some on here feeling like their nastiness should be untouchable)pre pandemic, during and post. Working in mainstream schools, special schools, SENCO roles and as an LA. Post-grad quals in SEND, Autism and a level 3 legal qualification.
I have a very broad view of the challenges of the system, the nuances and parental difficulties.
I have never posted the depths of my children's struggles on here, that is their business and not a means of me point scoring against some random on the interne. But according to some random up thread I have had an easy time of it in the SEND system ..Have I heck!! Because I have an ounce of intelligence I know that this is because of funding and government policy, not because only people who are untrustworthy and 'have the skins of rhinoceros' become SEND case workers.
Some people were nasty cows before they became a SEND parent, but they now feel they are justified. And brush off what my colleagues have experienced all you like. Just know that people who are abusive to them are completely contributing to the lack of stability in the workforce and the impact on delays etc. A bit like people who are awful to teachers then whinge that their child has a new one every term.