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Would you take your kids out of school to go travelling?

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Travellingtime123 · 05/04/2025 06:59

We’re in a very fortunate position to have the opportunity to take our kids travelling for a year if we want to. We just need to decide if it’s a good idea.

  • We’ve lived abroad for a decade and we’re planning to come back to the UK. We’ll be changing jobs/schools anyway so could take a gap year before we come back.
  • The kids will be 9 and 7 (we’d come back to the UK in time for them to start year 6 and 4).
  • We own a home in the UK so we know where we’re moving back to. Although I have no idea how this would affect school applications etc.
  • Both kids like travelling (we’ve done a lot since they were babies), we’ve done full summers but at a pretty slow pace and obviously only for 7 weeks during summer holidays.
  • Both kids are doing well academically at school, we’d do some home schooling whilst we travel but it obviously isn’t the same as being in school.
  • Both kids are very sociable and make friends easily. They also get on well with each other (usually!)
  • Financially we could do it pretty comfortably without having to make too many other compromises (I realize how fortunate this is).
  • Family would fly out and meet us at various points for a couple of weeks at a time.

In our position would you do it?
If so, where would you go? I’d love to hear tips from anyone who has done it or anyone who homeschools kids this age.

OP posts:
milleniumstar · 20/04/2025 20:24

The OP can put them in private school when she comes back if needed so nothing to worry about imo. Do it!

0ohLarLar · 20/04/2025 20:35

For super-selective grammars serving large areas, parents arranging weekly coaching / tutoring (sometimes on top of private schooling in schools that pride themselves on grammar prep) for at least a year before the test is the norm. For ‘take top 25% of the cohort’ in more deprived areas of fully grammar counties, much less focused familiarisation is fine.

I wouldn't say this is accurate any more. I live in a fully grammar county, and everyone has weekly 11+ tutoring for a minimum of a year before, with the pushier parents starting 2 years before.

milleniumstar · 20/04/2025 20:37

That's true for the London grammars, dc doing hours of tuition weekly for 2 years. I know lots of people this year who didn't get a grammar place but went to private - a few with bursaries.

Gogogo12345 · 20/04/2025 20:39

These kids will be much more adaptable and less worried about stuff

Even without the travelling they are moving country anyway so not just stuck in a "safe" routine little bubble and will be needing to leave things like dance classes friends bedroom etc

jocktamsonsbairn · 20/04/2025 21:47

100% yes

minipie · 20/04/2025 22:20

Honestly? Not if you want to get them into a grammar or a selective academic private school. Year 5 is the main prep year for those exams and they happen in the first term of year 6 as pp said. A tutor while away won’t make up for missing school, many kids have school AND a tutor.

If you are relaxed about which secondary they go to - and will be ok with a not particularly academic private or the local state - then go for it.

Maddy70 · 20/04/2025 23:02

Teacher here..... Absolutely yes. Do it!

Tansy878 · 24/10/2025 19:43

@Travellingtime123

Hello, I'm curious as to whether you decided to travel in the end?

our kids are 5 & 8 and we're considering a similar thing, albeit for a shorter period. Any advice you have would be v helpful!

OchreSnail · 24/10/2025 19:55

Honestly, I wouldn't even worry about them having gaps in their education at that age; several years of home schooling one of my DCs who successfully went into school age 13 made me wonder what they did in school all day!

if it's any help, we did the basics of school-type education using maths work books, plus a lot of reading, exploring, research, and discussion. Did a bit of traveling. This was pre-broadband Internet, ha. Home school inspectors were always happy with their progress.

RedLeicesterRedLeicester · 24/10/2025 22:18

I am so jealous!

Would go in a heartbeat.

As experienced teacher I’d suggest:

Maths:
Get decent workbooks. So much easier than looking around for random bits. For example:

https://whiteroseeducation.com/resources/maths/primary#workbooks

English:
Get your know the expectations for each of your child’s year groups well and task them to write something, perhaps over 2 or three days per week, working towards certain points from the exemplification. And keep reading obviously. And maybe get a coupe of decent comprehension books for them each for other days.
For example:

https://www.nottinghamschools.org.uk/teaching-and-learning-support/primary-teaching-and-learning/moderation-writing-y3-y4-y5/

https://www.twinkl.co.uk/resources/ks2-assessment-and-targets-english/ks2-assessment-and-targets-english-writing/writing-exemplification-materials-writing-targets-and-assessments-english-targets-and-assessments-assessment-targets-planning-and-assessment-key-stage-2-year-3-4-5-6

https://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/0857479636/ref=sspa_mw_detail_2?ie=UTF8&psc=1&sp_csd=d2lkZ2V0TmFtZT1zcF9waG9uZV9kZXRhaWw&aref=WzvkorFzcL&sp_cr=ZAZ

Could do this with added tutor too but this would be my basic starting point. I’d say you need to know well what is expected of them by the end if the school year they are missing.

Pleeeeassse go for it!

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