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Last One to Laugh - did the female contestants need to do sexualised performances for laughs?

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Nobiggerthanyourhand · 02/04/2025 13:07

I really enjoyed Last One to Laugh but was a bit perplexed by the female contestants doing strip teases and erotic dancing,

I don’t watch stand up any more but can’t imagine French and Saunders or Jo Brand twerking at a dog for laughs. Or Bridget Christie.

And the male contestants didn’t do sexualised performances.

So, YABU: it is ok that the women did sexualised performances, and the men, not
YANBU: there is more to women’s comedy than strip teases and twerking

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TheWonderhorse · 02/04/2025 15:51

NoSoupForU · 02/04/2025 15:23

I'm not a snobby person, certainly not when it comes to comedy, so I found it hilarious and has tears rolling down my cheeks several times from laughter.

I didn't find any of it to be sexualised. A piss take of a strip tease wasn't intended to be sexual, it was intended to be awkward and funny, which it was.

This was me. Joe Wilkinson's RNLI thing had me snort laughing whenever I remembered it.

Dotjones · 02/04/2025 16:13

The vote doesn't make much sense, both are true. There's more to women's comedy but they are entitled to do it.

I actually can imagine Joe Brand or French & Saunders doing similar things, with Brand or French in particular because it'd be a sort of "ironic" "look at me I'm doing a striptease even though I've not got the body stereotypically associated with women who do them" way.

Nobiggerthanyourhand · 02/04/2025 16:37

I remember reading that Dawn French stopped doing their show because she felt that she had lost control of the joke … it was something to do with Anastasia.

I think this is the same space where I found the sexualised performances and the sexual banter in the programme a bit disappointing.

In the 90s, there was ‘ladette’ culture and reclamation of characteristically-masculine behaviours reframed for women… but haven’t we all moved on from that? (and seen that mocking something doesn’t necessarily put you in control of it?)..

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RedPony1 · 02/04/2025 16:50

None of that bothered me in the slightest, i laughed all the way through, including tears. Was brilliant, just my humour 😂

RufustheFactuaIReindeer · 02/04/2025 17:03

Right at the start, Bob Mortimer asked Rob Beckett if he had a kitchen island and you could see Rob already thinking he wasn't going to be able to cope

this 😀

ElfAndSafetyBored · 02/04/2025 17:16

Nobiggerthanyourhand · 02/04/2025 13:44

Yes. BM did do a bit of magic with the tea towel.

There were two stripteases, I thought. Lou and Harriet.

I am not sure that I agree with the pendulum swinging back idea … what does a woman mocking a striptease / erotic dance do for the feminist cause?

And to be really prudish, the vibrator stuff with Judi Love was also a bit low-grade, wasn’t it?

I’m pretty sure Lou Sanders did an interpretive dance of her own birth alongside her mother. She came down a slide through her mums legs.

ElfAndSafetyBored · 02/04/2025 17:17

It possibly wasn’t her actual mother 🤣

LizzieSiddal · 02/04/2025 17:25

We loved this series and have watched some episodes twice. Dh actually commented that it was a shame they felt the need to go there, (vibrator and striptease) they are both such funny women, it felt so old fashioned.

I was sad when Judi left though, thought she’d take the whole lot of them out as she has such an infectious laugh! 😆

Newgirls · 02/04/2025 17:35

I thought it showed a huge range of humour topics and styles. Men can’t do sex jokes at all as they’d be cancelled.

Luckingfovely · 02/04/2025 17:47

I think you have to work pretty hard to be bothered by just a few moments in the series that vaguely referenced sex in any form.

But if you are that bothered I can only recommend staying away from anything vaguely relating to comedy. Or possibly real life.

Nobiggerthanyourhand · 02/04/2025 17:52

Luckingfovely · 02/04/2025 17:47

I think you have to work pretty hard to be bothered by just a few moments in the series that vaguely referenced sex in any form.

But if you are that bothered I can only recommend staying away from anything vaguely relating to comedy. Or possibly real life.

That’s not really the point that I am making. Sexual content per we isn’t necessarily offensive; it’s the peculiarity that the most puerile jokes were among the women, ironically.

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CheeseWisely · 02/04/2025 17:54

Redpeach · 02/04/2025 14:45

Not being funny but....i dont find drawings of penises funny

I think that was intended to make them laugh through the shock of the unexpected, rather than because drawings of penises are funny although they are.

Someone above mentioned Victoria Wood and now I have ‘Let’s Do It’ in my head. Beat me on the bottom with the Women’s Weekly….

KarCat · 02/04/2025 17:56

Luckingfovely · 02/04/2025 17:47

I think you have to work pretty hard to be bothered by just a few moments in the series that vaguely referenced sex in any form.

But if you are that bothered I can only recommend staying away from anything vaguely relating to comedy. Or possibly real life.

What a particularly nasty comment!

GreyCarpet · 02/04/2025 17:57

I'm just amazed so many people watched it and found it funny.

I watched the first 15/20 mins and couldn't bear it any longer.

It was absolutely dire.

SuspiciousChipmunk · 02/04/2025 18:07

Redpeach · 02/04/2025 14:45

Not being funny but....i dont find drawings of penises funny

No one was accusing you of being funny.

GreyCarpet · 02/04/2025 18:14

RufustheFactuaIReindeer · 02/04/2025 17:03

Right at the start, Bob Mortimer asked Rob Beckett if he had a kitchen island and you could see Rob already thinking he wasn't going to be able to cope

this 😀

But... that just wasn't funny. What was funny about it? Just not funny...

Whatafustercluck · 02/04/2025 18:21

I found it unfunny after the first couple of episodes, with jokes focused on bodily functions and genitalia/ sex. I'm not a prude, but to me it just wasn't funny.

Daisy May Cooper's rollercoaster was brilliant. The ping pong ball routine was cringe and the funny faces game in the final episode felt like they were scraping the bottom of the barrel. I prefer cerebral rather than physical humour.

Bob Mortimer is great on panel shows, and is a thoroughly interesting man. His surreal personal life stories are a treat to listen to. But I don't find him laugh-out-loud funny in the way I find Richard Ayoade's dry humour funny.

I like Judi Love, Joe Lycett and Sara Pascoe and wish they'd stayed in it longer.

The most puerile jokes (whether about sex or not) were from Harriet Kemsley and Lou Sanders. And i just don't find that humour funny.

Nobiggerthanyourhand · 02/04/2025 18:39

GreyCarpet · 02/04/2025 18:14

But... that just wasn't funny. What was funny about it? Just not funny...

I think there was a generational thing with Bob Mortimer - he was the oldest by some way (and a bit of a legend). I think they were all a bit starstruck.

He might also be one of those people who you only have to look at to start giggling.

The interactions with him were quite touching.

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TheWonderhorse · 02/04/2025 18:46

Nobiggerthanyourhand · 02/04/2025 18:39

I think there was a generational thing with Bob Mortimer - he was the oldest by some way (and a bit of a legend). I think they were all a bit starstruck.

He might also be one of those people who you only have to look at to start giggling.

The interactions with him were quite touching.

Oh it was lovely. He is the funniest man, and the nicest guy too.

They were clearly very deferential with him. I'm so glad he's recognised as the absolute legend he is. But he still makes me pee myself with shameful regularity.

Fairislesweater · 02/04/2025 19:00

I quite enjoyed it but amongst all the comedians, it was Danny Dyer’s vocal exercise that made me genuinely belly laugh

RufustheFactuaIReindeer · 02/04/2025 19:01

But... that just wasn't funny. What was funny about it? Just not funny...

i didnt find it funny…

Wildywondrous · 02/04/2025 19:10

I loved the series and didn't notice the women being more sexual than the men but if they did then I think it reflects reality.

Not related but I think that Richard deliberately threw it at the end so that Bob would win.

SorenLorensonsInvisibleFriend · 02/04/2025 19:11

I liked the show generally and found Rob Beckett a lot funnier than I’d originally thought. Snorted laughing at Joe Wilkinson’s RNLI joker, he was one of the few people who could break Sean Lock, who I always loved. Also, made me develop my crush on Richard Ayoade (my deep fondness and adoration for Bob has lasted the last two decades!).

I really appreciated the commitment to putting in a good balance of female and male comedians, especially as I didn’t know Lou Sanders or Harriet and dont particularly find Judi Love funny. I loved seeing Bob Mortimer moving quickly away from Alison Hammond as she’s precisely the sort of person who’d make him giggle. It made me wonder about who I’d choose as replacement women comedians - i guessed Jennifer Saunders, Miranda Hart, Catherine Tate and Victoria Coren Mitchell would be proper heavyweights (and yes, mourned the loss of Victoria Wood who could surely break anyone).

Perculiar · 02/04/2025 19:15

Wildywondrous · 02/04/2025 19:10

I loved the series and didn't notice the women being more sexual than the men but if they did then I think it reflects reality.

Not related but I think that Richard deliberately threw it at the end so that Bob would win.

I also thought Richard did that! I think he could have outlasted bob but wanted bob to win

Simplegazette · 02/04/2025 19:18

Does ping-pong balls shooting out count as sexual?

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