I'm not sure whether I'm being oversensitive, but here goes.
I've struggled with my weight for as long as I can remember. I've tried every diet going, and it had seriously messed my head up.
I'm now at a stage of my life where I'm finally accepting myself, and my body.
I'm eating better, with the odd treat, and found an exercise that I love.
My dilemma is about a friendship. I don't have many friends, but I have been friends with a mum at the school for a few years. She too has struggled with her weight too, we've both been honest in our struggles. I told her that I had once struggled so bad with binge eating.
She's now losing weight, I'm actually really proud of her, she feels better for doing so, and I've cheered her on at every milestone she's made.
But quite often, she will message me and say "I've got a size 24 pair of leggings if you would like them, they're too big for me now", which I'm guessing is her just being kind, but I'm literally not that size (not that there's anything wrong with that size, there isn't, but I've not been that size for a good few years).
It's kinda making me feel a bit rubbish, and I get all the old thoughts that used to torment me, back inside my head.
It's taken me many years to accept myself, and start liking myself a bit more, but this kind of upsets me a little, especially she knows how bad I once was.
I'm not sure how to reply to these messages, which are quite often. I don't want to look ungrateful, or offend her in any way.