So, in the past I have caught him messaging other women and talked to him about it. Every time I mention it, he brushes it off and gets angry at me for even bringing it up. The first woman was one of his old FWB. The second was some woman on Instagram. The most recent one dates back to three years ago which i know is a long time ago but I'm not letting it go because I know there are probably more encountersI not even aware of. I was using his tablet for my coursework and came across his Facebook. Admittedly, I peeked. I know I shouldn't have but honestly I need validation for my concerns at this point. He was basically saying that she is shining and calling her babe, commenting on her smile and using heart-eyed emojis. He said she looked cuter than ever. Am I overreacting? She lives in the UK but up North and we live in London. He also said he wished she didn't live so far away. I'm not sure what to do at this point. I have suggested therapy and he says no. He thinks I am too "masculine" and ambitious. I get a lot of compliments on my looks to be honest. I work hard, I study. He never comments on my looks or says anything nice about me. We also have a 4 year old. I honestly feel trapped at this point.