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Maxie Allen and Rosalind Levine arrested - The vindictiveness of the school and police overreach

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Everanewbie · 01/04/2025 08:45

AIBU to worry that this type of incident seems to be happening more and more? To me, there are several concerning aspects to this story. Here is a link if you aren't yet aware.

www.theguardian.com/uk-news/2025/mar/29/parents-arrested-by-hertfordshire-police-for-complaining-about-daughters-school

Firstly, the apparent opaqueness of a public organisation and attempts to shut down private conversation and the vindictiveness the school has shown in attempting to silence this couple.

Secondly, the treatment of the pupil whereby she is being dropped off an escorted into school, and inability to discuss he disability and SEN with teachers, leading to multiple emails that were ultimately used against the couple.

And thirdly, WTF are the police doing? 6 Officers to arrest a meek professional couple, in front of their daughter. Holding them in a cell for 11 hours? Why are the police not dismissing this out of hand? I have always tried to be a supporter of the police, but how can reasonable people continue to accept this when they wont attend a burglary or detain shoplifters, but turn up in force for a middle class couple who called a governor a control freak in a private conversation?

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JasmineAllen · 02/04/2025 10:11

ExtraOnions · 01/04/2025 09:28

Gobby arsehole parent.. harasses staff with multiple emails, harasses staff on premises, and harasses staff via Whatapp - and is then shocked when he is reported.

Entitled is more of a suitable label.

I bet the local high school can’t wait for his applications to turn up.

As far as I know being gobby is not a criminal offence in the UK.

Six police officers were sent to their house FFS in what was a massive overreach by the police who in my experience really drag their heels for proper crime eg if you're burgled, they certainly don't send 6 police officers round!!

Soontobe60 · 02/04/2025 10:13

BarchesterTowels · 01/04/2025 10:09

I actually know this couple. Not going to say much in case it's too outing, but they are lovely, altruistic people who do a huge amount for charity and their local community and frankly I couldn't imagine a couple less deserving of the treatment they received. They are also not the sort of people who will turn a blind eye if they think injustice is being done or (as with the school recruitment) due process is not being followed. Maxie Allen is or was a local councillor and cares deeply about things being done properly and openly. If that makes him a 'busybody' then I think he'd accept the label. But they absolutely did nothing wrong and the school's characterising legitimate concerns about governance as "harassment" is simply dishonest.

Can I point out that the recruitment process for appointing a new Head does not have to be an external one.
If the current Deputy is considered to be completely competent and would make a good Head, then why not appoint them?
It can cost a school £2k+ to recruit someone, takes at least 2 terms and you still don’t know what you’re going to get!

XelaM · 02/04/2025 10:15

When my dad's car was stolen from outside our house and there was CCTV and ringdoorbell footage of the theft, guess how many officers turned up? ...Errr... exactly ZERO. They told us over the phone (once an officer was actually assigned to the case several days later) that the car is probably already abroad, so unlikely to ever be found.

Yet 6 officers turned up to arrest these parents who criticised the school on a WhatsApp group?! The UK is mad.

Mielikki · 02/04/2025 10:15

JasmineAllen · 02/04/2025 10:11

As far as I know being gobby is not a criminal offence in the UK.

Six police officers were sent to their house FFS in what was a massive overreach by the police who in my experience really drag their heels for proper crime eg if you're burgled, they certainly don't send 6 police officers round!!

They certainly would send round 6 people to arrest a suspected burglar if they had intelligence that there were children at the location.

Soontobe60 · 02/04/2025 10:19

FairKoala · 02/04/2025 08:09

Even if it was “Entitled”

It was not illegal

The fact the school went to the police says more about
the school than the parents.

The fact that the school went to the police says more about there being missing information about the actions of the parents rather than anything else.

Everanewbie · 02/04/2025 10:19

MikeRafone · 02/04/2025 10:03

inflammatory and defamatory” comments on social media

Writing defamatory comments comes with consequences

Can I call the police for slander?

If statements are made which are threatening, grossly offensive or obscene, then this could constitute malicious communication, which is a criminal offence. This could be reported to the police. Generally, this requires the communication to be by way of letter, electronic communication or article.

warnings on a private WhatsApp group

a group isn't private

added to which its evidence

For a start "inflammatory and defamatory” comments are not the same thing as " threatening, grossly offensive or obscene"

Deformation is a civil matter, and is dismissed if you prove that the statement is correct or you have grounds to believe it to be correct.

Would or should malicious communication be made legal in UK?

It is a complicated issue, and I support the intentions, but when the act is used to stifle free speech, legitimate discussion and debate, and/or police act in a clearly disproportionate manner, I'd say that changes are needed.

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Everanewbie · 02/04/2025 10:23

Soontobe60 · 02/04/2025 10:19

The fact that the school went to the police says more about there being missing information about the actions of the parents rather than anything else.

If the police or the school are to come out of this when any credibility, this missing puzzle piece needs producing, as the school's and police statements in their right to reply have been pretty lame,

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FairKoala · 02/04/2025 10:29

SinnerBoy · 02/04/2025 09:27

Thanks for that, IfIHadAHeart

To my mind, if the Police had all the emails, then surely they had their evidence and should have read and assessed it? They have concluded that there is no case to answer, 5 weeks in.

Could that not have been done first? Or a voluntary interview, rather than an arrest?

The problem is there is no common sense anymore, let alone any reading going on
I have spent years fighting companies and local authorities. Just to get a correct bill or a fine for something that wasn’t sign posted removed.

Won each time but honestly wish people would read and check what I am saying is the truth then put themselves in the motorists or the customer’s shoes and make a decision based on that.

JasmineAllen · 02/04/2025 10:30

Mielikki · 02/04/2025 10:15

They certainly would send round 6 people to arrest a suspected burglar if they had intelligence that there were children at the location.

I bet they wouldn't - 2 to deal with the suspected burglar, 2 maximum to do 'family stuff'. That is of course assuming the police bothered to investigate the burglary in the first place, which in my experience they wouldn't despite multiple ring doorbell evidence they would rather ignore.

FairKoala · 02/04/2025 10:33

Soontobe60 · 02/04/2025 10:19

The fact that the school went to the police says more about there being missing information about the actions of the parents rather than anything else.

Well if there is a missing bit of information then the school needed to produce it or the police would have found it

Even after going through all the computers and presumably phones from this couple and the school can’t find it or produce it suggests that there isnt some missing piece of evidence

Ronsealit · 02/04/2025 10:35

Widowerwouldyou · 01/04/2025 09:16

The police have been utterly shamed here / only caught out because they tried to bully a Times Reporter - this would never have come to light otherwise.
6 police officers!

It’s been explained everywhere that six officers were needed. Two suspects to arrest who may or may not have struggled, two children in the house plus a search to do. Two officers might have had their hands full, do you not think? The couple complained to the police and their complaint was not upheld.

QuirkInTheMatrix · 02/04/2025 10:35

Everanewbie · 02/04/2025 09:39

Any compensation for wrongful arrest will time consuming and negligible in sum. Telling their story to the world is far more effective strategy in tackling this overreach from the school and the police.

They could do both if they felt they had a case. If I had been wrongfully arrested I’d be doing that as I’d feel it would help vindicate me.

MikeRafone · 02/04/2025 10:36

Malicious speech has consequences and is not something that has ever been part of free speech or needs to be altered.

The act hasn't been used as although arrested you'd not be charged if a crime hasn't been committed

What were the remarks/speech used? although this is widely reported I haven't seen the remarks/speech

and as they are not malicious could they be shared?

FairKoala · 02/04/2025 10:36

MikeRafone · 02/04/2025 10:06

Where does malicious communication turn into stalking? - and which one is a real crime? or are neither a real crime and both should be made legal? Would or should malicious communication be made legal in UK?

The fact remains that this wasn’t even considered malicious communication

MikeRafone · 02/04/2025 10:37

FairKoala · 02/04/2025 10:36

The fact remains that this wasn’t even considered malicious communication

The fact remains is malicious stalking a real crime - not in this case whether it was committed.

User46576 · 02/04/2025 10:37

Soontobe60 · 02/04/2025 10:13

Can I point out that the recruitment process for appointing a new Head does not have to be an external one.
If the current Deputy is considered to be completely competent and would make a good Head, then why not appoint them?
It can cost a school £2k+ to recruit someone, takes at least 2 terms and you still don’t know what you’re going to get!

Edited

Because it’s an open and transparent process. We should not be awarding jobs to pals in the public sector.

that said, it’s not really the point anyway. People shouldn’t be arrested and locked up for expressing opinions about public services.

FairKoala · 02/04/2025 10:38

Ronsealit · 02/04/2025 10:35

It’s been explained everywhere that six officers were needed. Two suspects to arrest who may or may not have struggled, two children in the house plus a search to do. Two officers might have had their hands full, do you not think? The couple complained to the police and their complaint was not upheld.

As opposed to armed gang in a home invasion whilst owner was at home. 999 dialled

Police officers required 2 to deliver a crime number 45 minutes after the event

TheKeatingFive · 02/04/2025 10:38

PicaK · 02/04/2025 08:14

It says to me that the school felt things had got so extreme they asked for police help.

You're assuming the school is right on its judgement. But that's not necessarily true. It reads to me like the school can't cope with any criticism.

Ronsealit · 02/04/2025 10:39

FairKoala · 02/04/2025 10:38

As opposed to armed gang in a home invasion whilst owner was at home. 999 dialled

Police officers required 2 to deliver a crime number 45 minutes after the event

Can’t comment on this part as it’s not in the news report.

User46576 · 02/04/2025 10:40

Ronsealit · 02/04/2025 10:35

It’s been explained everywhere that six officers were needed. Two suspects to arrest who may or may not have struggled, two children in the house plus a search to do. Two officers might have had their hands full, do you not think? The couple complained to the police and their complaint was not upheld.

That’s completely incorrect. As Maxie explained they had to wait for his 80 year old mother to come and look after the children in the house as they wanted to arrest both parents. Further they hadn’t even analyzed the messages beforehand to determine if any were criminal. Despite that they locked the couple up in different cells for hours.

FairKoala · 02/04/2025 10:41

User46576 · 02/04/2025 10:37

Because it’s an open and transparent process. We should not be awarding jobs to pals in the public sector.

that said, it’s not really the point anyway. People shouldn’t be arrested and locked up for expressing opinions about public services.

Personally I thought this type of thing was stamped out in the 80s where you couldn’t get a job working for local government especially as the jobs either weren’t advertised or they went through the process of applications only to award the job to soneone’s son, daughter, aunt etc who usually had to learn the job from scratch

User46576 · 02/04/2025 10:41

And why on earth did they need to search their home or arrest them anyway? Utter misconduct

FairKoala · 02/04/2025 10:42

Ronsealit · 02/04/2025 10:39

Can’t comment on this part as it’s not in the news report.

It’s a friends experience

QuirkInTheMatrix · 02/04/2025 10:43

User46576 · 02/04/2025 10:41

And why on earth did they need to search their home or arrest them anyway? Utter misconduct

Well it’s been found to not be misconduct 🤷🏻‍♀️

User46576 · 02/04/2025 10:44

FairKoala · 02/04/2025 10:41

Personally I thought this type of thing was stamped out in the 80s where you couldn’t get a job working for local government especially as the jobs either weren’t advertised or they went through the process of applications only to award the job to soneone’s son, daughter, aunt etc who usually had to learn the job from scratch

Sadly not. There’s still a huge amount of corruption in the public sector. One of my close friends was delighted to be given a six figure managerial job in the NHS by her friend. It was several grades above her current role and it seems they actually created the role for her. It involves attending meetings about meetings largely

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