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To wonder where these kids are meant to go?!

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Wonderberry · 31/03/2025 19:06

Unfortunately, my child's school is closing due to the VAT imposition on private school fees. She has special needs, and her fees are paid for by her EHCP, as it is a cheaper alternative to a special school. I am not rich. She cannot attend a state mainstream due to her special needs, and the council agrees with this.

I now have no school placement for her. The special schools are hugely oversubscribed (over 10 applications per place). Even if she could go to a state mainstream, there is no space in any of them, due to lots of schools closing locally. I have called dozens of them in desperation, as I need for her to go somewhere.

I have been frantically contacting the council to get her a new school place. They won't even respond. I'm faced with her being without any school place shortly. I cannot home school as I need to work.

My DD is far from alone in this. Unfortunately, the government has paid no thought into the wellbeing of SEND children, when imposing the VAT.

OP posts:
TesterP0t · 01/04/2025 20:01

0ohLarLar · 01/04/2025 19:59

The reality is we can't afford to pay for private education for kids who cope better with smaller class sizes.

The vast majority of kids learn much faster/better with a better ratio of adult input. We can't afford it.

A child who can manage in a mainstream private, should be able to be supported in a mainstream state.

I suspect there'll be a shift towards providing "autism friendly" classes in state schools.

This!!!

Laughingdoggo · 01/04/2025 20:02

0ohLarLar · 01/04/2025 19:59

The reality is we can't afford to pay for private education for kids who cope better with smaller class sizes.

The vast majority of kids learn much faster/better with a better ratio of adult input. We can't afford it.

A child who can manage in a mainstream private, should be able to be supported in a mainstream state.

I suspect there'll be a shift towards providing "autism friendly" classes in state schools.

”A child who can manage in mainstream private should be able to manage in mainstream state when supported.”

If the private one offers tiny classes, break out spaces, sensory/quiet areas and a broad curriculum and they are things that cannot be delivered in state, because they simply don’t have them, then what should happen?

StrivingForSleep · 01/04/2025 20:03

DC don’t get an independent MS named just because it is better. There is no legal right to the best possible education. Provision in EHCPs has to actually legally be reasonably required. To have a wholly independent school named the parents need to prove the LA’s proposed school(s) can’t meet needs &/or it isn’t unreasonable public expenditure. They don’t get the independent MS named just because it is ‘better’.

Not all DC who can manage in an independent MS can be supported in a state MS. If they could be, the independent MS wouldn’t be named, and thus funded, via their EHCP.

Sadly DC of parents who know the system and can advocate for them get better support. It shouldn’t be like that and fails the most vulnerable. However, instead of blaming the parents of DC who secure provision their child is legally entitled to, all parents should be supported to enforce their child’s rights.

Laughingdoggo · 01/04/2025 20:03

Can I point out what should be obvious - most parents want the best for their child. They want them to thrive and be calm and happy. If they know that can’t happen with the current state offering, then they have no alternative than to look at private sector and neither does the LA.

Cannaeberught · 01/04/2025 20:06

Wonderberry · 31/03/2025 19:39

A lot of schools have closed since the VAT. Some may have closed anyway, but it has accelerated the closure rate. It has also meant parents moving kids to state as understandably they cannot afford fees anymore, but there is no space left in the state sector. Lots of state schools are closing too locally.

There’s no school that’s closed that wasn’t in huge financial trouble.
theyre businesses, and if they can’t get enough paying customers then they aren’t viable.

TesterP0t · 01/04/2025 20:07

Laughingdoggo · 01/04/2025 20:03

Can I point out what should be obvious - most parents want the best for their child. They want them to thrive and be calm and happy. If they know that can’t happen with the current state offering, then they have no alternative than to look at private sector and neither does the LA.

Then the LA needs to do that for every child- except they can’t.

twistyizzy · 01/04/2025 20:08

Cannaeberught · 01/04/2025 20:06

There’s no school that’s closed that wasn’t in huge financial trouble.
theyre businesses, and if they can’t get enough paying customers then they aren’t viable.

I can't even dignify this with a reply

SunnySideDeepDown · 01/04/2025 20:11

Wonderberry · 31/03/2025 19:39

A lot of schools have closed since the VAT. Some may have closed anyway, but it has accelerated the closure rate. It has also meant parents moving kids to state as understandably they cannot afford fees anymore, but there is no space left in the state sector. Lots of state schools are closing too locally.

with a rapidly declining birth rate, state school places isn’t a huge concern in lots of areas. I live in the South East in a popular area and 3 out of 4 local primaries (all good or excellent ofsted rating) have spaces in my kids year. The reception class this year I my kids school had 20 kids in a class big enough for 30.

Im sorry you’re in a tricky situation and I really do hope you find a suitable resolution.

Laughingdoggo · 01/04/2025 20:11

TesterP0t · 01/04/2025 20:07

Then the LA needs to do that for every child- except they can’t.

And yet legally they must. So then what? I keep asking you but you don’t reply.

EasternStandard · 01/04/2025 20:12

Cannaeberught · 01/04/2025 20:06

There’s no school that’s closed that wasn’t in huge financial trouble.
theyre businesses, and if they can’t get enough paying customers then they aren’t viable.

What kind of sector do you work in that a huge hike in taxes and costs wouldn’t damage it?

TesterP0t · 01/04/2025 20:14

Laughingdoggo · 01/04/2025 20:11

And yet legally they must. So then what? I keep asking you but you don’t reply.

Looking at provision like this for a start

“suspect there'll be a shift towards providing "autism friendly" classes in state schools.”

EasternStandard · 01/04/2025 20:15

Op they will have to find your dc a place though?

Does their documentation say they have to go in non mainstream?

They can’t just leave you without a place, surely

StrivingForSleep · 01/04/2025 20:17

@TesterP0t that already happens to an extent via units/bases/cabins/provisions within MS. It isn’t suitable for all and never will be regardless of what support is put in place. And not all DC unable to be taught in state schools have autism.

TesterP0t · 01/04/2025 20:19

StrivingForSleep · 01/04/2025 20:17

@TesterP0t that already happens to an extent via units/bases/cabins/provisions within MS. It isn’t suitable for all and never will be regardless of what support is put in place. And not all DC unable to be taught in state schools have autism.

It is not sustainable!!!!!!

Parsley1234 · 01/04/2025 20:19

@TesterP0t why are you backing this woefully inadequate government they are SHIT

StrivingForSleep · 01/04/2025 20:22

@TesterP0t state schools and independent special schools cannot cater for all DC with SEN. Removing other options won’t see a reduction in costs. Costs will actually rise. There will be an increase in expensive EOTAS/EOTIS (with or without the C on the end) packages. LAs do not like expensive EOTAS/EOTIS packages. They like them even less than independent school placements. They aren’t the easy or cheap option. Some EOTAS/EOTIS packages cost a lot more than school placements.

CrispieCake · 01/04/2025 20:22

TesterP0t · 01/04/2025 20:19

It is not sustainable!!!!!!

Neither is having children in mainstream who are incapable of coping and disrupt the class to the extent that the teaching staff can't ensure their safety and welfare or the safety and welfare of the other children.

TesterP0t · 01/04/2025 20:23

CrispieCake · 01/04/2025 20:22

Neither is having children in mainstream who are incapable of coping and disrupt the class to the extent that the teaching staff can't ensure their safety and welfare or the safety and welfare of the other children.

Many schools manage children like this successfully.

Laughingdoggo · 01/04/2025 20:23

TesterP0t · 01/04/2025 20:19

It is not sustainable!!!!!!

Ok so HOW do you fix it? This isn’t about arsehole grabby parents, so what do you think is the answer?

Laughingdoggo · 01/04/2025 20:23

TesterP0t · 01/04/2025 20:23

Many schools manage children like this successfully.

WHAT ABOUT THE ONES THAT CANT?

CrispieCake · 01/04/2025 20:25

TesterP0t · 01/04/2025 20:23

Many schools manage children like this successfully.

And many don't and no one learns anything and the children are subjected regularly to the unedifying spectacle of vulnerable, overwhelmed classmates being restrained and removed from an environment they can't cope in.

TesterP0t · 01/04/2025 20:25

Parsley1234 · 01/04/2025 20:19

@TesterP0t why are you backing this woefully inadequate government they are SHIT

The current system is shit and needs to change.

spicemaiden · 01/04/2025 20:25

Wonderberry · 31/03/2025 19:29

Interesting, I think you might be right. I have asked for them to consult the local special school for a place but I know the chance of getting a space is slim as it's so oversubscribed (it's also a lot more expensive than her current school, so the VAT policy will end up costing money in her case). I don't know what else to suggest at this point.

https://assets.publishing.service.gov.uk/media/657995f0254aaa000d050bff/Arranging_education_for_children_who_cannot_attend_school_because_of_health_needs.pdf

StrivingForSleep · 01/04/2025 20:26

@TesterP0t and many children and young people do not manage successfully in state schools. It is why they have an independent school named in the first place.

StrivingForSleep · 01/04/2025 20:27

Exactly @CrispieCake. There are already parents of DC without SEN who post things like their child needs a school with a low SEN intake. Add in more DC, with more complex SEN for whom MS is not appropriate and it makes for an even less inclusive environment.

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