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Clock change should not be allowed on Mothering Sunday ...

94 replies

Obvs92 · 30/03/2025 08:01

Just that really. Where's my lie-in!!!!

OP posts:
ScrewedByFunding · 30/03/2025 08:39

Doingtheboxerbeat · 30/03/2025 08:34

Roll your eyes all you want but saying you can't understand or don't get why shows a lack of understanding for other peoples situations.
HTH.

Well yes when people make up faux problems like 90% of mother's day posts (see also valentine's day and Christmas day) then I don't understand. HTH.

BeyondMyWits · 30/03/2025 08:41

Light-heartedly, it is just one of those "bloody typical" moments.

There is only one day in the whole year that is one hour shorter than any other day in the year.

Ironic that the time poor get less time on "their" day.

Mydogisamassivetwat · 30/03/2025 08:41

At the risk of sounding thick, what time would it have been now? 7:40? Can have remember if it’s fall back, spring forward or the other way round.

I never bloody notice. I just look at my phone which changes time automatically and that’s the time. This morning has been completely normal, as always.

I’ve never noticed it when I had small children either - I’m in bed now and my 4 year old co sleeper is still snoring away next to me like she usually would be at 8:40am on a weekend morning.

I live in a little bubble, obviously.

RedToothBrush · 30/03/2025 08:42

I agree.
Mother's Day should be abolished.

Mydogisamassivetwat · 30/03/2025 08:43

RedToothBrush · 30/03/2025 08:42

I agree.
Mother's Day should be abolished.

Ah, but then how would they sell cards, tat with mum plastered all over it and overpriced flowers?

(I’m not into it, can you guess).

Suzuki76 · 30/03/2025 08:43

Sherrystrull · 30/03/2025 08:37

You obviously don’t have children in grassroots sport…!

Truth. Up and at 'em for rugby at 9am - which feels like 8am!

Mamofboys5972 · 30/03/2025 08:45

Tell me about it, I thought my baby slept for 4 full hours last night, but it was only 3 🤣 my brain was so confused in the middle of the night !

ErrolTheDragon · 30/03/2025 08:46

Yabu, because you’ve got it the wrong way round. The clock change is at an easily predictable date, as it needs to be, it affects everyone in Europe. It’s Mother’s Day which should change if the clash is a problem.

OurChristmasMiracle · 30/03/2025 08:47

My cheeky charming toddler decided that 5am was a reasonable hour to get up…. He didn’t fall back to sleep until midnight last night so my lie in…… 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I can but dream.

hoping he has a lovely long nap around 10 🙏🙏🙏

Gowlett · 30/03/2025 08:49

No interest in a lie-in here! Me-time while they’re all in bed.

I’ve been up since 6.30, reading, pottering, made myself a gorgeous breakfast. Two cups of tea. Shower next. Lovely!

TwoLeftSocksWithHoles · 30/03/2025 08:51

TogetherNormanDouglas · 30/03/2025 08:22

DH has planned an entire day of golf today and he needs to be at the golf club by 10. He has forgotten to set the alarm. He is still in bed snoring his head off. Should I wake him up?

Yes, wake him up, but remove all the heads from his golf clubs (do they unscrew?) as a sort of hilarious, early April Fools Joke.

He'll have to play the round using his clubs a bit like snooker cues.

What a laugh they will have in the Clubhouse!

(Actually, probably best you DON'T do this - he might be a tad annoyed.)

Theunamedcat · 30/03/2025 08:52

I don't mind it this year I've been waking at five am all week because last week my body clock decided the clocks had changed already

I'm curious what would happen (to me) if we ever decided to not change the clocks because this isn't the first time my body has done a clock change all by itself 🤔😅

BeyondMyWits · 30/03/2025 08:53

Mydogisamassivetwat · 30/03/2025 08:43

Ah, but then how would they sell cards, tat with mum plastered all over it and overpriced flowers?

(I’m not into it, can you guess).

Meh, just think of it as "bolstering the economy".

All the extra days (mothers', fathers' valentines' etc) add millions of pounds spending on luxury items and the chancellor takes VAT on all of it - no special days = less tax taken = more to be raised by some other means - which might affect me.

Sherrystrull · 30/03/2025 08:55

@Suzuki76

Hope you get a bacon cob at least! Rugby for us too!

Kandalama · 30/03/2025 08:56

I was wondering why my iPad says now 8:50 but when I looked at the clock in the kitchen before my coffee it said 7:30.
I thought I’d spent over an hour drinking a coffee 🤣🤣🤣

PuggyPuggyPuggy · 30/03/2025 09:02

ScrewedByFunding · 30/03/2025 08:17

Do you have an alarm set then? Because I don't understand why people think they lose sleep?

My dog sleeps all night and around 6.30am he wakes for a wee. Sane this morning, except the clock said 7.30am. He didn't suddenly wake an hour earlier at 6.30am still...

Same with little ones and adults. So unless you have set an alarm for today then I don't get it.

I have shit to do, so I have to be at the supermarket as close to opening time as I can manage in order to fit the rest in. So yeah, I do lose an hour of sleep, because now I have to get out of the house at 8:30, which we are arbitrarily calling 9:30 for the next six months. I've showered, done two loads of washing, I'm having my breakfast, and the sodding dog is still snoring upstairs on my bed after briefly coming to and wondering why I'm up so early.

Yeah, I resent the hell out of BST.

RedToothBrush · 30/03/2025 09:02

Mydogisamassivetwat · 30/03/2025 08:43

Ah, but then how would they sell cards, tat with mum plastered all over it and overpriced flowers?

(I’m not into it, can you guess).

I dunno. I think the Chinese love mother's Day in the UK.

"Mum I'm thinking of the planet, so I didn't get you something for mother's day. Instead I'm going to make a promise to do some extra tasks around the house on a permanent basis because I've been slacking and letting you down"
Said next to no one.

ScrewedByFunding · 30/03/2025 09:05

PuggyPuggyPuggy · 30/03/2025 09:02

I have shit to do, so I have to be at the supermarket as close to opening time as I can manage in order to fit the rest in. So yeah, I do lose an hour of sleep, because now I have to get out of the house at 8:30, which we are arbitrarily calling 9:30 for the next six months. I've showered, done two loads of washing, I'm having my breakfast, and the sodding dog is still snoring upstairs on my bed after briefly coming to and wondering why I'm up so early.

Yeah, I resent the hell out of BST.

Well resent it then. It sounds a miserable way to live tbh but I guess you can't help how you feel. Being so resentful of the world must be really tiring. Put your feet up and have a cuppa instead.

samarrange · 30/03/2025 09:07

ScrewedByFunding · 30/03/2025 08:17

Do you have an alarm set then? Because I don't understand why people think they lose sleep?

My dog sleeps all night and around 6.30am he wakes for a wee. Sane this morning, except the clock said 7.30am. He didn't suddenly wake an hour earlier at 6.30am still...

Same with little ones and adults. So unless you have set an alarm for today then I don't get it.

Yes — the years when you have small children are the only time in your life when the clocks going forward is a good thing. You don't get any more sleep but at least the clock says you did!

LGBirmingham · 30/03/2025 09:09

Sofiewoo · 30/03/2025 08:23

Because babies and little children are often woken by the light and don’t just sleep the same amount of time when the clocks change.
It’s not really comparable to your dog.

Which is surely why the clocks going forward is good? It means it gets light later for a while

Glammar · 30/03/2025 09:12

No lie in here as DS needed to get to football. The game has been cancelled at the last minute. I could have had a lie in 😩

PinkGiraffe1 · 30/03/2025 09:13

Mother's Day date changes each year due to Lent/Easter... see Google result below.

Next year it's mid March again and not when clocks go forward.

My DH is taking the kids to their sports activities this morning so I can have a nice relaxing morning.

In the UK, Mother's Day, or Mothering Sunday, changes dates each year because it's tied to the fourth Sunday of Lent, which is three Sundays before Easter, and Easter's date varies annually based on the lunar calendar.

Justa60sRockChick · 30/03/2025 09:15

Obvs92 · 30/03/2025 08:01

Just that really. Where's my lie-in!!!!

I'm assuming this is some kind of semi-joke OP? And you don't actually believe either date can be moved around?

You can lie in as long as you want it's just that whatever you do afterwards will be an hour later if you stick to 'old time'.

Both dates are set well ahead - Mothering Sunday is a linked to the church ( historically it was a day when children working away from home were allowed a day off to return home.)

GMT and BST aren't moveable feasts, if that's what you want.

Both dates are known well ahead- like the start of the year.

Justa60sRockChick · 30/03/2025 09:16

PuggyPuggyPuggy · 30/03/2025 09:02

I have shit to do, so I have to be at the supermarket as close to opening time as I can manage in order to fit the rest in. So yeah, I do lose an hour of sleep, because now I have to get out of the house at 8:30, which we are arbitrarily calling 9:30 for the next six months. I've showered, done two loads of washing, I'm having my breakfast, and the sodding dog is still snoring upstairs on my bed after briefly coming to and wondering why I'm up so early.

Yeah, I resent the hell out of BST.

@PuggyPuggyPuggy Why not go to bed an hour earlier the night before?
That way you won't lose an hour's sleep.

It's not rocket science surely to work that one out?

UpUpUpU · 30/03/2025 09:17

I think the issue here is not losing an hours sleep (if you wake up naturally of course) It is losing an hour of the day and then bedtime being an issue for kids as they'll be heading up an hour earlier than yesterday.