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Boss called me an elephant at work

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feeIingaggrieved · 29/03/2025 21:12

My boss made a comment at work today and I can’t work out if I’m overreacting.

We were having a fairly normal conversation when, out of nowhere, he called me an elephant. I must have looked a bit taken aback because he quickly tried to laugh it off and said something along the lines of, “Oh, but elephants are the most intelligent creatures in the animal kingdom, they’re emotionally intelligent etc.”

A colleague who was there quickly changed the subject, and I just sort of let it go in the moment.

But the more I think about it, the more uncomfortable I feel. I’m struggling to see how comparing me to an elephant in front of colleagues is appropriate.

AIBU to be annoyed by this?

OP posts:
MagpiePi · 31/03/2025 09:40

HappiestSleeping · 30/03/2025 06:10

No, but painting the underside of my feet yellow enables me to hide upside down in bowls of custard.

“But I’ve never seen an elephant in a bowl of custard”
”Just shows you how good the disguise is!”

bubbariley · 31/03/2025 14:55

My boss used to call some people 'pachyderms', informing them that this means 'thick skinned' (like elephants and rhino's.) It's a compliment.

Poorandbrilliant · 02/04/2025 09:06

It was a compliment
An elephant is the most caring, organising and maternal creature, keeping the herd together and caring for individuals wellbeing due to their high emotional intelligence nothing to do with size. Sorry you didn't know that

rainbowstardrops · 02/04/2025 09:35

What a pointless post! Seriously, what is the point? 😡

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