There is a bit of an underlying theme between me and DH where I feel as though he takes me for granted / doesn't appreciate how much I do for him and our family which may be clouding my view of this situation so feel free to tell me if I'm being ridiculous.
DH went out earlier this week saying he needed to get a mothers day card for his mum, he took his older DD with him and asked her to choose one for her mum (his ex) too.
I assumed that this trip would also involve getting my card from our shared (toddler) DC. However this evening he's had to go out again, when I asked where he was going he didn't seem to have any issue explaining to me that he needed to get me a card for tomorrow. When I asked why he didn't get one when he got the others he just said "I completely forgot to be honest". He seemed in a huff to be honest that he had to go out on a Sat evening to get one.
AIBU to feel hurt? He remembered his own mother, and even bought a card for DSD to give her mum but I, his wife and mother of his other children, was just "completely forgotten". I'm hurt by that as it plays into the whole feeling that he just doesn't really think about me or what I do for the family. But it also hurt me that he'd not just make something up, just say you're going for toilet roll or something, why just bluntly tell me you completely forgot about me when literally buying mothers day cards for every other mother in your life?!
It's not about the card, I understand it's just a day. I just feel a bit hurt. He remembered to take DSD to get a card for his ex, he remembered to get one for MIL he barely sees, but I just got forgotten and now it's a burden that he has to go back out.