So as the title says… my exes wife has been texting my 18 year old daughter about all the marital problems her and her dad are having and telling my daughter her dad packed his bags last week and left her and their boys. And putting all this on my 18 year old. She also told my daughter she’s pregnant again and that she could be losing it and she’s also been asking my daughter whether I’ve got a new partner her and asking why I’ve not met anyone else yet as it ‘might help’
i can’t stand the fact she’s asking about my private life
He was abusive to me and cheated on me with her after a long marriage. She told my daughter not to tell her dad she’s been messaging my daughter and she’s also said don’t tell your mum either. My daughter has had to carry this burden and his wife has made my daughter feel very disappointed in her own dad and made her worry for her siblings she’s got by her dad as she went through her dad leaving
my 18 year old suffers badly with her mental health it’s affected her college course and I attend meetings with the college about her work yet this woman had now burdened her with more stuff
and then today she text my daughter saying her and her dad are back on track now and he’s looking after her but last week he was apparently being ‘cruel’
i feel like she just uses my daughter for info.
my daughter told as she feels like that wife is just lying and making up stories for attention and it’s bothering her but she’s too scared to tell her dad
i want to tell them myself to keep my daughter out of their problems and to keep my name and relationship status out of her mouth but not sure whether that’s a right thing to do