For context, DH and I have 2 kids. We both own businesses. His is in start ups. I have an employee his in the process of getting one. I manage my employee from home as I’ve taken time off to raise baby 2. As DH’s new company requires tlc I am very understanding when it comes to him working late. I’ve been doing the full bedtime routine with both children and he comes home right before they are ready for bed. Yesterday baby wouldn’t go down and was distracting our eldest. I asked him to come home (9pm) and he reluctantly did and immediately was annoyed I hadn’t gotten them to bed. After a long day of cancellations, kids screaming and on my feet all day, I said I need a second. He still refused to change baby. Then when I was getting eldest to bed he started shaving his beard. I said you could help you know, the kids have to sleep. And he said is that what we do around here? You normally do your make up when we need to get the kids ready any other time. I literally do everything with the kids from dusk to dawn, while bringing home a decent amount of money and helping him grow a successful business. I just can’t stand who he is anymore. Entitled child and I really really want to leave him.