Hi, we’ve fostered a family member of my partners and it’s been really hard, mainly for the fact that all of his family have now turned against me and make my life hell. I don’t have contact with them except for the people similar in age to me, and even they will act lovely to my face but spread hatred about me behind my back. My partner is fed up but in an uncomfortable position, I’m not sure what to do anymore. They have run my name to the ground and all I did was take on their child instead of letting him go into the system? I’m trying to turn my upset and hurt they’ve caused me into love and lessons but it’s much harder to truly forgive when they haven’t asked for forgiveness.