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NEIGHBOUR CROSSED THE BOUNDARY BEFORE EXCHANGE

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MummyToBeAgain1 · 26/03/2025 09:29

Hi

I need some advice please.

We're buying a semi detached property and due to exchange and complete in a week or 2.

Over the weekend we drove past the property to find a fence being built between our garden and the property on the right. I suspected they had come in to our garden at a glance so drove past again yesterday.

The fence had fully been up and clearly it crossed in to our garden (to be). I've attached a quick drawing which shows what I mean. The red line is the fence the neighbour has put up.

Just for some context this is a auction property as the owner has died and the children wanted a quick sale. This means that we have a deadline for completition which makes things more stressful.

What do we do now?

Tia

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ZookeeperSE · 26/03/2025 14:08

BigAnne · 26/03/2025 12:04

Perhaps the NDN bought this strip of land from the vendors.

That was my first thought tbh. May not be a CF neighbour at all. As the seller is not the previous owner and have no need to feel a duty of honour, they may well have offered (or been asked by neighbour) a strip of land for a few thousand and thought either you wouldn't notice til it was too late or wouldn't pursue because it will be so much hassle for you.

WearyAuldWumman · 26/03/2025 14:08

I agree that you have to deal with the seller via your solicitor, OP.

Unfortunately, this kind of scenario is quite common. My late father's neighbour tried this nonsense with him. Dad's own flat had been bought by the council via compulsory purchase. Unwillingly, he finished up in a council property which he refused to buy, fearing that he'd be the victim of a compulsory purchase yet again.

The next door neighbour had bought his council house. His garden was a hymn to concrete, decking and gravel, whereas dad took pride in his roses and vegetables.

One day, Mum and Dad got home from a medical appointment to find that the neighbour had built a fence which took a foot of Dad's rose garden...

The neighbour got a shock when Dad - by then an octogenarian - knocked on his door and told him to move the fence. He argued with Dad, but then complied. I'm assuming that he thought that an old man would be a soft mark.

In your case, OP, the neighbour obviously thought that they could fool a new neighbour. I'm sorry for the position that you're in, but you'll have to tell the seller to deal with it.

godmum56 · 26/03/2025 14:10

ZookeeperSE · 26/03/2025 14:08

That was my first thought tbh. May not be a CF neighbour at all. As the seller is not the previous owner and have no need to feel a duty of honour, they may well have offered (or been asked by neighbour) a strip of land for a few thousand and thought either you wouldn't notice til it was too late or wouldn't pursue because it will be so much hassle for you.

but that would have meant them lying in the legal pack? Surely they'd have known how silly that is?

Whatareyoutalkingaboutnow · 26/03/2025 14:14

SoonTheDaffodilsWillBeOver · 26/03/2025 09:45

To be clear OP - this is not your house. You haven’t even exchanged yet. So you can’t go to the neighbours and say the fence is on your land, because it’s not yet your land.

I would go through your solicitors and say there appears to be a boundary dispute, and you need the sellers to resolve this before exchange. Then it’s their problem.

Absolutely this. Let them sort it out prior to exchange. What CF neighbours!

Easterbunnygettingsorted · 26/03/2025 14:15

Will be a bloke. They always add a few inches on ...

LardoBurrows · 26/03/2025 14:16

Easterbunnygettingsorted · 26/03/2025 14:15

Will be a bloke. They always add a few inches on ...

So true 😂😂

Moveoverdarlin · 26/03/2025 14:25

You hold all the cards here OP. I’m sure the sellers (the deceased’s children) will be fuming when they find out. It’s their solicitors role to now resolve this. Provide your solicitors with the pictures from today and the pictures from Google Earth in 2003.

You can threaten to pull out if they don’t remove the fence, OR as 1.5foot isn’t much, the sellers could agree to sell the neighbours the land they have stolen - for say 5 k. And you insist on the them knocking that amount off the property price.

snotathing · 26/03/2025 14:26

Often the boundary shown on title deeds isn't precise enough to the nearest foot or two to make it certain where a fence should be sited. The vendors could have just allowed the neighbour to put it in the right general area as a favour to him.

Or the neighbour could be chancing his arm himself.

ZookeeperSE · 26/03/2025 14:30

godmum56 · 26/03/2025 14:10

but that would have meant them lying in the legal pack? Surely they'd have known how silly that is?

Maybe they thought they'd get away with it? It happens. A developer bought the piece of land next to mine and made two house gardens look bigger by nicking a long thin strip of land belonging to me. It was easily challenged as DH has owned the property for forty years and had many pictures of the land as a whole and aerial shots and written statements from more than one company who had worked on trees etc stating as such from up to twenty years prior. Didn't stop them trying. Angry

BarbaricYawp · 26/03/2025 14:33

I hope it wasn't an iamsold auction property. It does sound like it from some of the things you're saying. If it is, you'll have a hell of a time recouping your £10K if you pull out, because their whole business model is built around grabbing as many of those deposits as possible, irrespective of whether or not sales go through.

And if the sellers are using iamsold's in-house solicitors, Medway Law, then don't count on them sorting anything out ever, never mind in time to stop you breaching your deadline. Go ahead or pull out, either way you're going to end up playing hardball with someone. I think I'd recommend visiting the neighbours just to get a sense of how much or little you'd prefer it to be them.

Gulliver88 · 26/03/2025 14:59

Controversial but I'd maybe be thinking to let it go.
Causing friction with a new neighbour isn't likely to end well.
Do you really need the land .

moveoveralice · 26/03/2025 15:02

Gulliver88 · 26/03/2025 14:59

Controversial but I'd maybe be thinking to let it go.
Causing friction with a new neighbour isn't likely to end well.
Do you really need the land .

Not controversial, just stupid.

Why on earth would anyone let a neighbour get away with a sneaky land grab, no matter what the size!

Easterbunnygettingsorted · 26/03/2025 15:11

Op why not offer your garden furniture to go with the extra bit of land.. I mean do you really need it?. Fucking nuts people on here today..

MurdoMunro · 26/03/2025 15:13

Gulliver88 · 26/03/2025 14:59

Controversial but I'd maybe be thinking to let it go.
Causing friction with a new neighbour isn't likely to end well.
Do you really need the land .

You’d give away a chunk of land then pay for it for the next 25 years???? Batshittery.

Bruisername · 26/03/2025 15:15

And imagine the hassle when you come to sell!

Cottesloe · 26/03/2025 15:16

RaspberryBeretxx · 26/03/2025 10:11

I'd go to your solicitor and also contact the seller. How wide and long (approx) is the extra strip the neighbour has nabbed? It seems a lot of effort on neighbours behalf for what looks like a fairly small strip (not that it means you shouldn't sort it out or they're allowed!).

Even a bloody foot matters!

However @MummyToBeAgain1 I would see the vendor tomorrow and let them deal with it, then you can be exonerated can't you? Meaning they wont know its you.

Good luck and let us know how it went!

stayathomegardener · 26/03/2025 15:16

Really feel for you and hope it can be resolved. I think the easiest way would be by the vendors insurance company getting involved, maybe they even have legal cover.

ButterCrackers · 26/03/2025 15:20

Gulliver88 · 26/03/2025 14:59

Controversial but I'd maybe be thinking to let it go.
Causing friction with a new neighbour isn't likely to end well.
Do you really need the land .

Whatever you have of value your neighbour says it’s all theirs and has steals it from you. Do you really need to cause trouble by getting it back? Do you really need these things anyway?

Bigtix · 26/03/2025 15:21

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Antonania · 26/03/2025 15:21

Gulliver88 · 26/03/2025 14:59

Controversial but I'd maybe be thinking to let it go.
Causing friction with a new neighbour isn't likely to end well.
Do you really need the land .

That's a bit like paying a blackmailer. You're teaching them they can get away with it. They'll just do it again, grab a bit more of your drive or maybe your back garden.

Land grabs are absolutely awful to sort out. It's just so easy to walk onto someone else's land and put a fence on it. By far the best defence is not to move in next door to a thief.

Bigtix · 26/03/2025 15:24

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GabriellaMontez · 26/03/2025 15:34

Wow. What a chancer.

Northernladdette · 26/03/2025 15:36

CatsChin · 26/03/2025 09:46

Is it definitely his fence, and not your fence?

It’s the neighbours’s fence if he put it up.

Thebloodynine · 26/03/2025 15:39

Northernladdette · 26/03/2025 15:36

It’s the neighbours’s fence if he put it up.

I’d argue that if you build something on someone’s else’s land which is sold, and everything on that land is sold as seen, then the new owners could rip it down and just go “oh, why would you have put your fence in our land… that’s an odd thing to do. Oh well, we’re putting up a new fence on the boundary anyway, you can have yours back.” And just carry on all breezy like. What can they do? They don’t own the land so any action they take will have to include “we built on land we don’t own and now want to sue.”

I know it’s their fence and it’s destruction of their property… but what could they actually do about it 🤷‍♀️

Northernladdette · 26/03/2025 15:42

You might find he was actually reinstating the boundary where it should be, albeit a bit sneaky. I’ve had a couple of houses of that layout, where the fences jut out after the flank wall at the front and back, in line with the guttering overhang.
Obviously speak to your solicitor, and remember, it’s not your house until completion 😉

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