Im married in early 40s and mid way through ivf I discovered I had ovarian cancer and had to have everything removed 😠and whilst im upset about the situation and a possible bleak future, I do feel grateful the cancer was found early...I read about other people who started their families young and now either hate it, perhaps divorced....Had all in life and work it all then lost it all etc
I suppose today im feeling reflective and wondering, did your life turn out how you planned it?
A friend says not to worry because i can just go an adopt and that if i wanted kids id have them years ago....but i didnt have the resources to have them in my 30s and I actually enjoyed life. AIBU to feel that maybe some people just have a hard life and some people sail through?