God, I am so sorry you went through that, that must have been a huge shock. How condescending of that nurse telling you to drink water!
It is so frustrating, isn't it. It is like you're educating them on your condition, and then wondering what on earth you're there for. I am happy talking to the specialist epilepsy nursing team/consultant if I need any advice, which is what I am supposed to do. It is sort of outside of the GP realm. They have all basic test results on my record. If they are so worried about cardio issues than BP is pointless because it is fine, and they should have referred me for an ECG, which I thought would be mandatory with epilepsy.
They don't offer flu shots, the effects of catching this would have a lot more detrimental effect on my condition, so I pay for them. I don't understand urine tests, or why that would be required without any symptoms. I had a recent one anyway.
It is easy now to keep track of basic health these days, like you say with blood pressure monitors, most know their BMI etc. They do height and weight at most appointments now as well. I have it very recently on my record; bmi is 22. I have low cholesterol, and healthy blood sugar.
Like you, I don't smoke or drink either, never had any issues health wise, apart from the epilepsy. Meanwhile dh, who is overweight and has suffered high blood pressure, along with some depression could do with this more. The medications I am on don't look to have any untoward side effects; certainly none that would show now.
A 30 minute appointment is a long time, the letter should say what exact tests they would do as well.
Sorry for the rant, I have PMT, which isn't helping matters.
I'll politely decline, and let somebody else who actually needs this appointment, to go in place of me.