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Do you go on video on teams meetings?

118 replies

Terracottafarmers · 24/03/2025 09:25

We all work from home as our company is international and we have some colleagues local to each other, others up in Scotland or in America for example. Do you always go on camera for internal teams meetings, client meetings or when another colleague calls you? I've always gone on camera out of respect but sometimes I'm really not up for it, especially if I look like crap. I've started not going on camera if I do not feel like it, but my manager insists that we do. Wanted to get others thoughts.

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ilovesooty · 24/03/2025 13:39

OliphantJones · 24/03/2025 13:34

Why is it rude? What is so offensive about someone not having a camera on? What specifically is unprofessional about it? People are throwing these words out without really explaining why.

This thinking is quite ignorant and signals a lack of ability to understand that your way isn’t the only way. Differences don’t equal negatives.

If you have a reasonable adjustment in place fair enough. I don't otherwise see why people should expect to be in an environment where they're interacting with other people and do it through a blank screen. If the camera isn't on there's no evidence that they're even present, let alone engaging.

Criteria16 · 24/03/2025 13:42

OliphantJones · 24/03/2025 13:34

Why is it rude? What is so offensive about someone not having a camera on? What specifically is unprofessional about it? People are throwing these words out without really explaining why.

This thinking is quite ignorant and signals a lack of ability to understand that your way isn’t the only way. Differences don’t equal negatives.

It us about showing you are fully invested in the conversation, actively participating.
In a 1-2-1 meeting it’s odd for the other person to speak to a black screen, and it feels like they are not very important to the other participant.
In a group, people off camera are implicitly understood to be doing something else, so not really giving their full attention.
Exactly as an in person meeting, body language is also important.

And of course there are exceptions, but normally they are temporary and communicated at the beginning of the meeting.

Theeyeballsinthesky · 24/03/2025 13:44

Like most PP, camera on unless it’s a big meeting

I was working on a project that was not going well and every project catch up with the commissioning organisation was spent being shouted at by someone’s whose face I couldn’t see. It made an already difficult experience, excruciating

OliphantJones · 24/03/2025 13:48

So it’s about presenteeism then? It is very easy to show engagement without having a camera on. Chat box, hand raising, reaction emojis, speaking. If no participation is required from someone to the point they don’t need to speak or could step away from their computer what’s the point of them being invited to the meeting in the first place? There are far too many unnecessary meetings nowadays.

I resent people implying I am unprofessional, disengaged and rude simply because I don’t put a camera on. I am none of those things. These kinds of assumptions and refusal to consider and tolerate differences of such a simple nature are why workplaces are so toxic.

ilovesooty · 24/03/2025 13:56

OliphantJones · 24/03/2025 13:48

So it’s about presenteeism then? It is very easy to show engagement without having a camera on. Chat box, hand raising, reaction emojis, speaking. If no participation is required from someone to the point they don’t need to speak or could step away from their computer what’s the point of them being invited to the meeting in the first place? There are far too many unnecessary meetings nowadays.

I resent people implying I am unprofessional, disengaged and rude simply because I don’t put a camera on. I am none of those things. These kinds of assumptions and refusal to consider and tolerate differences of such a simple nature are why workplaces are so toxic.

You said you had a reasonable adjustment in place. That makes a difference.

As far as I'm concerned in most situations chat boxes, emojis and hand raising are not adequate substitutes for being able to see the person I'm talking to.

ohyesido · 24/03/2025 14:04

I always go on camera, it’s unprofessional not to.

peeweemermaid · 24/03/2025 14:11

I seem to be out of the norm. I teat Teams like a phone call and dont have an expectation to see someone in person.

PointsSouth · 24/03/2025 14:28

If you are going to speak, or if you're likely to be personally addressed, then you should be on screen. Which effectively means that if it's a ten-person meeting, your camera should be on.

If you're essentially part of an audience, then no.

MoreChocPls · 24/03/2025 14:33

Of course you should go on camera for meetings, especially client meetings. It’s beyond rude not to.

peeweemermaid · 24/03/2025 15:13

I may not see it that way as I dont have client meetings only stakeholder meetings so internal.

maw1681 · 24/03/2025 15:38

Usually yes, unless it’s a big meeting and nobody much has their camera on and I’m just there to listen in more than participate.

Didimum · 24/03/2025 15:50

Always. I will only ever have camera off if it's a huge meeting where I'm listening but not speaking or interacting.

BoldBlueZebra · 24/03/2025 16:00

If it’s just 4/5 of us I have mine on but more than that I will start with it on then go off when we actually get started

Pices · 24/03/2025 16:12

It’s so rude not to. In this job I inherited an external services provider who had a huge contract with us but never had their cameras on. I terminated the contract within 6 months of being there. They couldn’t even be bothered to turn their cameras on for a major client. We went elsewhere.

Lostsadandconfused · 25/03/2025 02:16

Hibernatingtilspring · 24/03/2025 10:06

@Lostsadandconfused if you aren't required in the meeting why are you turning up?
That's one of the main reasons we are expected to have cameras on, so people aren't talking to a group of people who aren't listening - total waste of time otherwise

I’m part of a project that involves usually 4 meetings per day.

I’m required to attend but most of the content doesn’t really directly impact my department.

NoAprilFool · 25/03/2025 14:30

Passwordsaremynemesis · 24/03/2025 10:26

Cameras off in my office, and thank god for that. Nobody needs to see my cat trying to get involved in my Teams meetings when I’m WFH.

Seeing people’s cats and dogs is the absolute highlight of a Teams meeting for me!!

Lottapianos · 25/03/2025 14:58

This 'looking like shit' stuff is nonsense. No one is expecting a blow dry and full make up. You just need a clean top and face and hair that looks presentable, not perfect. A neutral background

I often deliver training via Teams and always ask people to turn their cameras on. Some do, some don't. Totally agree that it's soul destroying to talk to a blank screen, and you wouldn't sit in a face to face session with a bag over your head.

I know a trainer who insists on cameras on, to the extent that he throws people out of the session if they don't turn them on, after several polite warnings to the whole group. If they say the camera's not working / poor connection, he tells them that they need to dial out and rebook for another time

Binman · 26/03/2025 04:41

I have found trainers increasingly doing this @Lottapianos I think they got fed up of talking to blank screens or listening to the camera broken excuse. If it's certificated you will not pass or receive a certificate unless you are seen and participating or your training record will not be updated.

I refused to do in house training when cameras were off, there was no way I was researching and preparing a session to then deliver it to a blank screen. It's so disrespectful.

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