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Play therapy for 13 year old daughter

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blasphemyyyyyy · 24/03/2025 08:37

My child (13f) has gone through some awful stuff within her lifetime and, however, still seems to enjoy playing with toys quite a considerable amount. We've tried many methods of therapy however none have made her put in the effort or 'clicked.' Two nights ago, she suggested to me play therapy. I hadn't considered that before and I think that she seems to be on board with the idea. Another part of me, though, think's she's too old to be doing all this! When she plays she often simulates real life scenarios in the form of the toys (I think this is her way of working through it) and talks to herself too.
AIBU to not go ahead with it immediately? Also how would I find a play therapist who would take on a 13 year old? I'm not opposed but would like more information from anyone please!! x

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blasphemyyyyyy · 24/03/2025 12:14

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stanleypops66 · 24/03/2025 12:20

The fact she has suggested it is really positive. I would try and find a play therapist. 13 isn’t too old. It’s only to old if the child doesn’t feel comfortable doing it.
there are lots of other types of therapy- music therapy, art therapy , sand and clay. All more practical that basic taking therapy and more suited to children.

Gleamingbrightly · 24/03/2025 12:26

13 years will be fine, it’s all based on developmental, not chronological age, it sounds like that’s where your daughter is comfortable in this area of her life and that’s just fine, good to know! Try googling playtherapyregister.org.uk to find someone local to you.

SharkLadyIsafool · 24/03/2025 13:21

I'm a play therapist. The above poster is correct that it is based on developmental , rather than chronological age. Most registered play therapists are also creative arts therapists so they work with all creative mediums , not just play. The register listed above is a good place to start as they've been vetted.

Unexpectedlysinglemum · 24/03/2025 13:58

Play therapy sounds like it would be excellent for her

Itsjustnotthevibe · 24/03/2025 14:36

Play therapy sounds like a good option. My son has had play therapy and it wasn't just playing, he made slime, drew pictures and did some creative writing. The therapist should find something that relates to your daughter.

Sirzy · 24/03/2025 14:38

It sounds like the best option for her at the moment. The fact she already uses her play to help her process things shows it could be very useful.

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