Partner was taking a look at the pipes under the sink today as the washing machine water was coming up through the plughole. He took one of my sports bras that was in the "to be washed pile" and proceeded to clean the dirty stinking pipe with it. I said "dont use my underwear to clean the pipe out please" - he said "you are so ungrateful sometimes" - and has spent the afternoon telling me nothing is ever good enough for me and making me feel like i am a really bad person. Ive explained how it made me feel but he said I nitpick and how I react is not normal. He said "however you want to react, do the opposite"
I actually hate him, he makes me feel like shit, I assume I am not in the wrong for asking him not to shove my sports bra down a dirty stinking drain pipe??