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To think the UK is in terminal decline

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ThisOchreBiscuit · 23/03/2025 08:13

Jobs Civil service to cut thousands of jobs

Nothing positive is happening in this country. It’s just cuts, cuts and tax increases but these arent doing anything to scratch the surface.

The whole country is being propelled up by a massive Ponzi scheme: house prices and immigration. House prices make all home owners feel richer and immigration makes the GDP figures look better.

I suppose I shouldn’t complain as I am a child of immigrants. My parents came here in the 70s from India. They were virtually penniless but they have now been retired for 15 years, earning a state pension from 65 and still getting their final salary pension. They own their home in London and have thousands in savings. They were able to achieve this whilst working in low skilled factory jobs.

Now, professionals with university degrees would struggle to achieve their life style.

I think we are heading to a social mobility and quality of life that is closer to India and than the traditional western view, with wealth in the hands of a small number of landlords.

A has just purchased a completely nice family home near me for £500k and added a back and loft extension and turned it into a 6 bed HMO charging £800 per room.

They will make a 15% return on their £250k investment.

Civil service to be told to slash more than £2bn a year from budget by 2030

Departments will be asked next week to reduce spending by 10% by 2028-29, says Cabinet Office source

https://www.theguardian.com/politics/2025/mar/22/civil-service-to-be-told-to-slash-more-than-2bn-a-year-from-budget-by-2030

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TankFlyBossW4lk · 23/03/2025 17:48

MrsPeregrine · 23/03/2025 13:27

Except the older generations tended to be more resilient and hard working than younger generations, many of whom are wrapped up in themselves and want everything handed to them on a plate.

This is just not my experience. A lot of the older generation retired at 55 or 60 years! It's true that people who are retired now saw unprecedented prosperity and not "because they worked harder." They simply did not. They benefitted from Thatcher selling everything off, RTB, gas , electric etc etc and being a part of a massive group that voted Tory en masse, protecting their generation and throwing all future prosperity away.

Didimum · 23/03/2025 17:48

Civil service has always slashed jobs every few years. My DH worked in civil service for 20yrs – he went through at least three periods of heavy redundancies.

Crapola25 · 23/03/2025 17:58

UK has massively declined over the last 5 years. I was born in the UK but moved to Switzerland 5 years ago. Trust me it's not like it everywhere. Every time I go home to the UK I can't believe how awful things are. The atmosphere has changed, everyone is miserable, complaining, fed up, desperate for change. Last time we visited my 4 year old asked why there is rubbish everywhere. It's also as if society has declined or as if people have given up. I took a public bus one day and the driver just pulled into a lay by and got out so he could have cigarette. Then there was the day that my train was delayed and I asked an employee at the station what was going on and she started effing and blinding about how they were all delayed.
Here in Switzerland you pay less tax. Everything works, its efficient- healthcare is incredible, public transport is on time, it's clean, no litter, no potholes, brilliant education, no antisocial behaviour or crime. If you are unemployed for any reason, as long as you have held a job for 2 years you are entitled to unemployment benefit capped at 10000chf per month for 18 months. It's a good, stable economy. When I first moved here I was shocked by how expensive it is but now compared to the UK it feels the same. My advice to any young person in the UK would be to move abroad if you can, because you cannot build wealth in the UK. Everything is working against you. But it is totally possible to do so by moving abroad. We have been able to save so much money in a relatively short space of time and we would never have been able to do that if we had not left.

User135644 · 23/03/2025 18:01

YourAmberScroller · 23/03/2025 17:46

I agree that this country is in terminal decline but for more reasons than you’ve outlaid. Seems pretty ludicrous that blue collar workers now in their sixties and seventies with just about one brain cell to rub together own significant assets in property, are able to buy new cars, have savings and a good pension, and can holiday multiple times per year while we chumps have to struggle to pay a mortgage on a house that we can barely afford but have degrees, decent jobs, skills aplenty.

The education system is unfit for purpose. The NHS has always been in decline since the day it was founded but now its joke level with services being rather pointless when wait times are months - years long, and the when you do get to the front of the line the service is inadequate. Basic things like food are unaffordable for working families. Childcare… I could go fucking on.

My Dad is in his 60s and been retired for 10 years. Lives most of his retirement on the golf course and on fancy cruise ships. He had an average job and an average wage. With that he bought a suburban semi and brought up his 3 children along with my Mum who was SAHM. With one average salary we could afford the basics and have an annual holiday.

That just wouldn't be possible now. You'd need two average salaries to hope to get a mortgage out on a similar property, which would mean both parents working full time jobs. With cost of living theres little chance of building up the deposit either without the bank of mum and dad and with most of your salary going on rent. Plus exorbitant childcare costs.

The nuclear family is basically dead to younger working class people. It's just not affordable.

mushroomshroom · 23/03/2025 18:08

How does it progress and thrive when it's massively over populated?

@Sourdoughandjam what's that got to do with my question? I haven't said anything about over population but you are the one arguing for no dc or solo dc?

mushroomshroom · 23/03/2025 18:10

If you don't want any children fair enough but you then just have an overpopulation of old
people which is financially more expensive?

Sourdoughandjam · 23/03/2025 18:12

mushroomshroom · 23/03/2025 18:08

How does it progress and thrive when it's massively over populated?

@Sourdoughandjam what's that got to do with my question? I haven't said anything about over population but you are the one arguing for no dc or solo dc?

It has everything to do with it.

glacancalman · 23/03/2025 18:13

Seems pretty ludicrous that blue collar workers now in their sixties and seventies with just about one brain cell to rub together own significant assets in property, are able to buy new cars, have savings and a good pension, and can holiday multiple times per year while we chumps have to struggle to pay a mortgage on a house that we can barely afford but have degrees, decent jobs, skills aplenty.

That's an awful post. Those blue collar workers you clearly despise will have worked hard and done everything society asked of them at the time. Blue collar =/= thick.

It's not their fault things are harder for you. But since you're clearly so much cleverer and more skillful I'm sure you'll succeed eventually 🙄

EmeraldRoulette · 23/03/2025 18:14

@YourAmberScroller "blue collar workers now in their sixties and seventies with just about one brain cell to rub together"

the lack of respect for essential workers in your post is truly horrendous. They are the ones who keep essential services going. They are perfectly intelligent.

I really hate that people think like you.

mushroomshroom · 23/03/2025 18:15

@Sourdoughandjam so how does a society with no children and young people function?

mushroomshroom · 23/03/2025 18:16

If people in the UK stopped having babies tmw we would still be overpopulated @Sourdoughandjam?

mushroomshroom · 23/03/2025 18:17

Seems pretty ludicrous that blue collar workers now in their sixties and seventies with just about one brain cell to rub together own significant assets in property, are able to buy new cars, have savings and a good pension, and can holiday multiple times per year while we chumps have to struggle to pay a mortgage on a house that we can barely afford but have degrees, decent jobs, skills aplenty.

This is harsh and I don't agree that blue collar equals stupid but your post isn't wrong in that young people today cannot hope for that future. That's what has gone wrong.

Sourdoughandjam · 23/03/2025 18:18

mushroomshroom · 23/03/2025 18:15

@Sourdoughandjam so how does a society with no children and young people function?

I didn't say no young people or children. There's a big difference between slowly working to ensure population reduces over time and having no children.

Sourdoughandjam · 23/03/2025 18:19

mushroomshroom · 23/03/2025 18:16

If people in the UK stopped having babies tmw we would still be overpopulated @Sourdoughandjam?

Of course we would. Nothing is ever solved overnight.

mushroomshroom · 23/03/2025 18:22

@Sourdoughandjam

You said this

"Having no children or solo children isn't the bad thing it's seen to be for society. Quite the opposite."

Do you know what the UK birth rate is? The problem isn't too many dc...

mushroomshroom · 23/03/2025 18:23

Of course we would. Nothing is ever solved overnight.

@Sourdoughandjam So answer the question, how does a society with very few young people function?

mushroomshroom · 23/03/2025 18:24

There's a big difference between slowly working to ensure population reduces over time and having no children.

Do you understand the UK driver of population is not the birth rate?

TankFlyBossW4lk · 23/03/2025 18:24

@Sourdoughandjam How are you going to support the massive increase in the population over 65 years? Who's going to work? In 1972 13% of the population was over 65. In 2043 , it's projected to be 24%. We already have declining birth rates.

Honestly, it's these kinds of non thinking voters that have pushed us into the decline of the West. Brexit, Trump hardly a surprise when these are the gems brought in as a serious argument by a population who apparently had access to free education.

JacqFrost · 23/03/2025 18:25

It's not just the UK it's all of Europe as a whole. Some famous businessman in the 90s predicted Europe would become the new third world against the emerging economies and he's being proven correct.

mushroomshroom · 23/03/2025 18:27

@TankFlyBossW4lk the non thinking is astounding!

JenniferBooth · 23/03/2025 18:29

mushroomshroom · 23/03/2025 18:10

If you don't want any children fair enough but you then just have an overpopulation of old
people which is financially more expensive?

Working class people have always been moaned at not to have kids if they cant afford them. So you cant whine about it now the reckoning has to be paid

GarlicStyle · 23/03/2025 18:31

There really isn’t much for today’s youngsters to be positive about. The era of growth and prosperity is over. Whether intentional or not the older generations have benefitted from factors beyond their own making and pulled up the drawbridge behind them.

Bullshit. Your 'older generations' gained their prosperity through their own collective work, rebuilding from the rubble of two world wars. Your own generation will benefit by inheriting from them.

Gen Z is set to be the wealthiest ever, in fact by some measures they already are (but don't feel it yet). I wish the whining generations would buck up and start fixing things instead of irritably waiting for someone to die and give them money.

Sourdoughandjam · 23/03/2025 18:32

TankFlyBossW4lk · 23/03/2025 18:24

@Sourdoughandjam How are you going to support the massive increase in the population over 65 years? Who's going to work? In 1972 13% of the population was over 65. In 2043 , it's projected to be 24%. We already have declining birth rates.

Honestly, it's these kinds of non thinking voters that have pushed us into the decline of the West. Brexit, Trump hardly a surprise when these are the gems brought in as a serious argument by a population who apparently had access to free education.

I am 100% not a Brexit or Trump supporter so don't even go there. There are many, many ways that we can support an aging population and let's not forget that our aging population is an aging population because medical advances have meant we can keep going for longer. We can work longer, live independently longer so it isn't a like for like comparison to supporting previous generation of elderly people. We can disagree on this and I'm fine with that. There's no way we can continue with current birth rates - the planet can't sustain it. It really is that simple.

Sourdoughandjam · 23/03/2025 18:34

mushroomshroom · 23/03/2025 18:24

There's a big difference between slowly working to ensure population reduces over time and having no children.

Do you understand the UK driver of population is not the birth rate?

This isn't just about the UK though is it? It's about global population too.

User135644 · 23/03/2025 18:34

JacqFrost · 23/03/2025 18:25

It's not just the UK it's all of Europe as a whole. Some famous businessman in the 90s predicted Europe would become the new third world against the emerging economies and he's being proven correct.

Neoliberalism has totally destroyed the west.