School reunion (30 years) which was fantastic and so glad to have gone. We've all lived life now and are much more confident than our school days.
During the night and several drinks, you end up chatting to a minority in the group who made those days uncomfortable.
One was a complete bitch and was just so mean for no reason, apart from the fact I accidentally hit her friend with a football. Whenever I saw her she spouted venom, pushed me, told me no one liked me. On this night she couldn't remember any of it.
Another one, he used to threaten me and throw stones, had no memory of it.
Yet another, I felt totally humiliated by her, she made fun of me, taunted, challenged my best friend friendship with another girl.
Last one, was a good friend then became mean at times, tried to take all my friends from me, I finally broke and we had a big physical fight, she started it.
I know this is nowhere near gang beating up but personal and from a different era.
Thing is, as victims, it's a huge thing for us, but seems as bullies it's just a daily occurrence with lots of people so they don't even remember it!
They've all grown into well rounded adults, with kids, who would hate them to be treated in this way.
Life eh?? Xxx