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To go for night walks in London?

60 replies

ThisFluentBiscuit · 19/03/2025 18:05

Dickens did this, and I'd like to do it too. Drives me utterly mad how restricted we are as women.

I wouldn't go in the dead of night, more like an hour or a bit more of fast walking before bed, to tire myself out, around 8.30-10pm. I wouldn't cut through dark parks or anything. I'm thinking 2-3 miles - easily doable in an hour or so.

So, dare I? Or should I stick to walking on the treadmill like I do currently? I want to feel the fresh air and be out in the world seeing things.

Being a woman is a prison and I'm sick of it.

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ItGhoul · 26/03/2025 20:48

It wouldn’t even occur to me to worry about going for a walk at night, in London or anywhere else. How do you imagine most women get around in the evenings?! People are still coming home from work shifts or going out to meet friends at those times. It’s really not a big deal at all. The chances of being attacked are tiny.

northernballer · 26/03/2025 20:49

I would, and if I have a late meeting I often finish work and walk to the tube at that time so no different. I think 10 would be my cut off.

museumum · 26/03/2025 20:53

When I lived in London I walked home from the last tube 3/4 times a week. Different tube stations / flats. Only one felt scary due to high walls. You could definitely go for a walk. But I’d start with a planned route rather than random wandering.

fruitypancake · 26/03/2025 21:30

I wouldn’t feel safe doing this

UseThePot · 26/03/2025 21:37

I just love seeing all the big buildings at night

CarrieOnComplaining · 26/03/2025 21:38

I walk around London late at night all the time.
Always have done, I couldn’t have done my job otherwise, frequently getting home 11pm and later.
Now I walk for exercise (have no dog) and live in a scruffy part of S London.

Millions and millions of hours are safely walked by women after dark.

The prison is of your own making.

Redpeach · 26/03/2025 21:41

What about a bike ride

CarrieOnComplaining · 26/03/2025 21:46

KookyOP · 19/03/2025 19:12

I grew up in the Elephant and Castle from aged 10 till I moved aged 38 and I didn’t just go wandering, I had the common sense to know where not to go and I even went there a few times but I had a mate who lived in the Elephant and you had to go through the Labryinth of tunnels which was underneath the Elephant and I never got in trouble, I used to drink in all black pubs in Brixton when I lived there and do the walk of shame back home along Railton Rd which was considered the front line at the time. I left over 10 years ago and I know it’s got worse cause I stop with family a few times a year but use your commen sense, we’re not living in Jack the Ripper times it’s worse , so be careful.

Railton Rd hasn’t got worse! And was never worrying when I used to walk from the tube to almost H Hill every night late. Not unless you were a rival dealer or whatever yardie or triad wars were going on.

Now Brixton is pretty gentrified. But Railton Rd and surrounding streets do feel a bit more deserted (and therefore less safe) since the bloody LTNs stopped the traffic.

Hollyhedge · 26/03/2025 21:49

I walk a lot in the evening with my dog. I think a dog makes you feel safer. It’s annoying we can’t relax more

Springhassprung01 · 26/03/2025 21:49

When I lived in London I was followed home across a park in broad daylight by a man shouting aggressively at me.

I wouldn’t go out at that time for a stroll but I would walk from A to B eg to get home.

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