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Nobody is allowed to choose not to work. Fed up of hearing this expression.

697 replies

girlfriend44 · 18/03/2025 21:18

I keep hearing people say people who choose not to work. Target them.
Nobody is allowed to choose not to work. I wonder if some people actually know what they are talking about?

Nobody is allowed to just lounge around and not look for work.

Able bodied people on UC who don't have a paid job are harassed all the time.
They will probably be attending interviews at the jobcentre once a week, where they have to provide evidence they are jobsearching 35 hours a week.

They can be sanctioned over any little thing.
They have to attend any courses they are sent on, even if they are useless courses. Non attendance will end in a sanction.

The staff can arrange interviews on their behalf if the employer has a tie up with the jobcentre which some do.
If it's deemed you didn't try hard enough at the interview, the employer can discuss this with the staff,and you'll be hauled up and sanctioned for not trying.

Those who think people choose not to work please be educated.
It's a hostile environment for anyone out of work.
Not every able bodied person can find employment.
Your not just allowed to sit at home and choose not to work though.

You'll have a claimant commitment and you have to provide evidence of jobsearching. 35 hours too.

I think alot of people who comment don't really know. Everyone is under pressure.
The days of just signing on once a fortnight and not having to.prove your doing everything you can have long gone.

OP posts:
Printedword · 19/03/2025 17:23

TENSsion · 19/03/2025 15:55

Also @Printedword
“Tory POV”

Are you aware we have a labour government and it is THEM who are currently decimating our benefits system?

I am going to say I don't support Labour's use of Tory policies and approaches.

Printedword · 19/03/2025 17:28

TENSsion · 19/03/2025 15:53

Soooooo no experience but lots of opinions and accusations designed to silence.

Cool

What?? I have an opinion that differs from yours. You are entitled to yours and I'm entitled to mine. I don't want to answer a slough of personal questions as that's not how I think we should be on MN threads.

girlfriend44 · 19/03/2025 17:45

Crikeyalmighty · 19/03/2025 16:06

Instead of suggesting ‘please be educated ‘ OP - I would suggest a week for you at the DWP in the fraud department - quite an eye opener! It is not ‘the odd few cases’ personally I think anyone who is left leaning ( and I am) has a duty of care to those who aren’t gaming the system and are truly in need be it short term or long term to come down on those who see the benefits system as a giant ATM to enable them to have the same lifestyle as those working long hours in many cases for very modest salaries - I’m with the gvt on this- those with chronic diagnosed situations and who genuinely are unable to work at all will I’m sure be kept in the same position- those who know they are at risk of losing certain benefits based on not much at all will be the ones at risk - see the BBC app today for details.i fail to see why 2 of the 3 receive it - the chap with dementia - no issues with that

I suggest you go undercover as a long term jobseeker too, see how many hoops you have to jump through, and see how many sanctions your threatened with.

OP posts:
Swiftie1878 · 19/03/2025 17:48

How many sanctions have you actually had?

lindyloo57 · 19/03/2025 18:06

My ex son-in-law now age 47 after signing on for over 20 years, he now has a job, they never made him get a job, thats why my DD left him, he never stayed in a job longer than 2 weeks

willowbrookmanor · 19/03/2025 18:20

@girlfriend44 There ARE jobs though, you just think they are “shitty” and don’t want them.

Very poor attitude when that is what lots of people actually do for a living.

Sometimes and for many people, any job is better than no job.

willowbrookmanor · 19/03/2025 18:22

I also complete UC information every month for a friend, it really isn’t as difficult as you making it out to be. I’ve been doing this for him for nearly two years because English isn’t his first language.

Thisismynewname23 · 19/03/2025 18:23

Gemmawemma9 · 18/03/2025 21:21

But this is not the case for everyone.
i know someone who chooses not to work, she has literally no reason to other than she doesn’t want to. She’s qualified in nothing and doesn’t want to lower herself to working in a supermarket.
I am sick of it to be honest.

One of my in laws is 54 and has decided he is retiring he is self employed earning good money and is now going to the doctor ready to claim he can’t work due to ill health but he said he is sick of working he is choosing to stop when he could easily continue his job or do a driving job, shop work etc

SnoozingFox · 19/03/2025 18:27

girlfriend44 · 19/03/2025 16:07

all hearsay and guesses, very few have direct experience on being on jsa themselves, its all i know someone.

That'll be it. Every single one of us who has posted on this thread who has a friend or family member who is gaming the system is lying, going of hearsay or guesses.

As if.

Mightymoog · 19/03/2025 18:32

Why are some people so reluctant to acknowledge there are people abusing the system? I don't get it.
Do they genuinely think the system is infallible?
Do they think nobody would ever do such a thing?
Do they think all the people with first hand experience of scroungers are lying?
I don't understand

sciaticafanatica · 19/03/2025 18:37

@MightymoogI agree with you.
people are absolutely abusing the system.
these benefits are supposed to be for the most needy and vulnerable. Not a lifestyle choice. If they clamp down on those abusing it, they could give more to those who need it

Ilovegoldies · 19/03/2025 18:38

I know someone who chooses not to work. She's not disabled. She just enjoys her free time daytripping and at the gym.

Exmouthlady · 19/03/2025 18:38

Do you honestly believe that those claiming UC are looking for work 35hrs a week? Really? No, they don't. It may be a rule but it's not a rule that has even been stuck to.

CaptainBeanThief · 19/03/2025 18:42

Here's one for the benefit bashers,
I became disabled, I had long standing mental health issues but then became severely unwell which has led to unrepaired damage and disability.
I am educated, worked since I left sixth form, worked until I wore myself down ( in a senior health care role) I'm 31 now.
I claim UC ( HUSBAND WORKS) , ESA and enhanced pip ( both components)
I absolutely hate and despise not being able to work, I so desperately want to work again however the occupation that I would be able to do within my capabilities is just not available.

Everyone who is young are not benefit scum who don't want to work and sit on our arses all day.

Not having a job makes me feel like shit but this is the hand I've been dealt.

Crikeyalmighty · 19/03/2025 18:43

@Ilovegoldies but is she claiming benefits ? Because if she isn’t I’m sure most of us don’t care if she chooses to do bugger all- plenty of non working wives married to comfortably off blokes in this position -

Crikeyalmighty · 19/03/2025 18:45

@CaptainBeanThief I’m so sorry you are in this position- do you think you could do other things at all as clearly you would like to do something?

Dideon · 19/03/2025 18:48

WhenICalledYouLastNightFromTesco · 19/03/2025 02:01

I don't know many people that have never worked, but I do know of one, and that is my sister (well, I'd estimate she may have worked about 3 years, on and off, in her adult life). We are both in our early 40s for context, and I love her dearly.

My sister got pregnant when she was very young. She had her first child at 16, and lived with my parents until she was 18. She then moved into a flat. I'm sure my parents supported her financially, but they did not buy the flat or pay her rent - that was not something they could've done financially.

She went on to have two more children.

She has received benefits even when her children became adults, and she did an amazing job with her kids, one of them is a teacher, one is studying medicine and one is still deciding on their future career.

My sister has recently been diagnosed with Fibromyalgia, and so is entitled to benefits. I don't know what she gets and wouldn't ever ask.

I've worked since I was 12, albeit it was a paper round, followed by other part-time jobs whilst I was at college and then at uni.

Now, I'm two years away from being mortgage free and I'm financially solvent. I live a comfortable life and don't need to worry about the bills - I know that could be taken away instantly though.

My sister is not financially solvent. I'm glad that she has had help from the state, and I wouldn't want it to be taken away from her, but I can guarantee you that she's never wanted to work and I've heard the words straight from her mouth.

”she has recently been diagnosed with fibromyalgia and so is entitled to benefits “ .
Is there no scope in the decision making process of the claims accessors when faced with a women that has never worked who now has no dependent children and might have to get a job to be able to request further information on the nature of her fibromyalgia?

CaptainBeanThief · 19/03/2025 18:49

@Crikeyalmighty
My CPN has referred me to an animal therapy course but it could take a while.
I am worried about going back to work, not in a can't be arsed - ill lose my benefits way- because my confidence is shattered.
I worked hard for my qualifications and worked hard to work my way up and now ill never be able to do the hard manual long hours again.
It's shit, with that being said - I do want to get back out there and contribute to society and get some sort of quality of life back.
Not all young people like to be on benefits ( I know a lot of people do) and I hate being judged as one.

9fthighfence · 19/03/2025 18:50

The psychology behind not wanting to admit that there are people cheating the benefit system by making up symptoms is interesting. These are probably also the sort of people who:

Think that we can change the tax system to charge Amazon / Facebook / Google more and that will solve our tax issues.

Think that people can change gender.

Don’t want to admit that Hamas are terrorists.

Think that the NHS can keep going under the current funding model,

etc, etc. They’re asking us to ‘be kind’ and turn a blind eye to inconvenient truths. If we just ignore the fact that claims for mental health are skyrocketing in a totally and utterly implausible manner we are going to totally bankrupt the country. Face facts!

I’m pleased Labour are taking these actions.

Dideon · 19/03/2025 18:53

TENSsion · 19/03/2025 15:55

Also @Printedword
“Tory POV”

Are you aware we have a labour government and it is THEM who are currently decimating our benefits system?

Good God !!

Fgfgfg · 19/03/2025 18:55

girlfriend44 · 19/03/2025 16:07

all hearsay and guesses, very few have direct experience on being on jsa themselves, its all i know someone.

Friend was sanctioned because his wife died and he was too distressed to attend his appointment two days later. He told them but their attitude was basically 'tough'.

Dideon · 19/03/2025 19:00

Printedword · 19/03/2025 14:21

There are some people with sad and cynical world views on here. I won't say I hope you never need benefits but I will say I hope you find a less Tory POV

Ha ha say you middle class without saying you middle class.

NotVeryFunny · 19/03/2025 19:02

Userlosername · 18/03/2025 21:45

I was on uc for a time op and that’s not my experience

Really? That’s hard to believe. The rules are really specific and having worked in a job centre, applied to everyone. If you are fit and well and without any caring responsibilities you have to attend job centre appointments with a work coach once a week for the first 13 weeks. You also have to evidence work searching for 35 hours a week. You are also really required to do various activities such as see someone to help you with a CV, attend courses and job fairs, help with literacy etc, and as the pp said sometimes you have mandatory job interviews, sometimes in the job centre within earshot of the work coaches.

it really isn’t easy to just not work if you are not unwell/disabled (and you have to prove that, you can’t just make it up), or you have caring responsibilities (ie a very young child, or a disabled person who receives a qualifying disability benefit).

hellohannah · 19/03/2025 19:05

I wouldn’t want to work with someone who didn’t want to work and did only the bare minimum they could get away with. I’m not saying they shouldn’t have to work but having no work ethic and a can’t be arsed, disinterested attitude is not productive or valuable in many cases and just causes a toxic environment for the people who have to work with them.

Idontknowhatnametochoose · 19/03/2025 19:15

When the work capability assessment is dropped and the LCWRA component is officially the UC health element instead will people who fail to qualify for pip basically be expected to work and receive sanctions if they don't?