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When should I be concerned?

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IThinkImThirtySomething · 18/03/2025 12:30

Hi all
posted this on the health thread but posting here for more traffic.

I have been on and off hormonal contraception for years (depo, mini pill) and have never had a problem with my cycle / the frequency of my cycle.

I was on the depo since August 2023 after a pregnancy scare in the July. I’ve always wanted another child but the time didn’t feel right so took the appropriate steps (we were using condoms but I felt I should perhaps use a different method). I have never had a problem on depo, it stops my periods but when I have come off it in the past my cycle returned to normal and ran like clockwork (I have always been very lucky in that sense).

Well I decided to come off depo after my last injection, and have been contraceptive-free since 31st Dec 2024. I have yet to see Aunt Flo. I know a side effect of depo can make your cycle out of whack for a few months but with me having normal cycles after depo in the past I am wondering if I should be concerned yet?

I am 32 in August, a bit overweight but nothing crazy (and actively losing weight - lost 11lb since the end of Jan). I already have DS who is 5.

If I go to the GP they’re just going to shrug me off aren’t they? How long shall I wait for AF to arrive before I get concerned? Came off contraception as wanted to TTC #2 this year.
is there anything I can do to kick start my hormones into gear?

thanks for reading and finishing - any advice would be much appreciated!

OP posts:
Swiftie1878 · 18/03/2025 12:32

Took 8 months for my cycle to come back and longer for it to regulate. I think you were lucky previously and should give it more time before worrying.

Katemax82 · 18/03/2025 13:28

When I started trying for a baby when I got married I had been on depo for 3 years. It took me 14 months to get pregnant after coming off it. It was purely caused by a delay in return to fertility because my following 3 pregnancies took about 2 months of trying. But don't worry because your age shouldn't be a problem you are still young, I just had my 4th and I'm nearly 43

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