Meet the Other Phone. Flexible and made to last.

Meet the Other Phone.
Flexible and made to last.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

When should I be concerned?

2 replies

IThinkImThirtySomething · 18/03/2025 12:30

Hi all
posted this on the health thread but posting here for more traffic.

I have been on and off hormonal contraception for years (depo, mini pill) and have never had a problem with my cycle / the frequency of my cycle.

I was on the depo since August 2023 after a pregnancy scare in the July. I’ve always wanted another child but the time didn’t feel right so took the appropriate steps (we were using condoms but I felt I should perhaps use a different method). I have never had a problem on depo, it stops my periods but when I have come off it in the past my cycle returned to normal and ran like clockwork (I have always been very lucky in that sense).

Well I decided to come off depo after my last injection, and have been contraceptive-free since 31st Dec 2024. I have yet to see Aunt Flo. I know a side effect of depo can make your cycle out of whack for a few months but with me having normal cycles after depo in the past I am wondering if I should be concerned yet?

I am 32 in August, a bit overweight but nothing crazy (and actively losing weight - lost 11lb since the end of Jan). I already have DS who is 5.

If I go to the GP they’re just going to shrug me off aren’t they? How long shall I wait for AF to arrive before I get concerned? Came off contraception as wanted to TTC #2 this year.
is there anything I can do to kick start my hormones into gear?

thanks for reading and finishing - any advice would be much appreciated!

OP posts:
Swiftie1878 · 18/03/2025 12:32

Took 8 months for my cycle to come back and longer for it to regulate. I think you were lucky previously and should give it more time before worrying.

Katemax82 · 18/03/2025 13:28

When I started trying for a baby when I got married I had been on depo for 3 years. It took me 14 months to get pregnant after coming off it. It was purely caused by a delay in return to fertility because my following 3 pregnancies took about 2 months of trying. But don't worry because your age shouldn't be a problem you are still young, I just had my 4th and I'm nearly 43

New posts on this thread. Refresh page