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The person eating pasta at the pool...

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Carouselfish · 17/03/2025 19:38

It was me. I know it was weird. I kind of hid it in my coat which made it weirder and look like I was some sort of compulsive eater. Also felt massively unhygienic. A chocolate bar or crisps is normal in the spectator seats, but full on pasta in a tupperware!!!??? But I didn't have any other time and I hate cold pasta. If I'd eaten it in my car 4 year old dd wouldn't have had me watching her lesson. Sorry, so sorry to be the weird secret pasta shoveller...

Sooooo...what's the oddest place you've ever had dinner?

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BunnyLake · 17/03/2025 21:28

Cold pasta is a thing (pasta salad). When I used to take my kids swimming there was a cafe attached so eating near the pool was normal.

Jessica5678 · 17/03/2025 21:29

Brushing teeth publicly in a swimming pool shower is absolutely revolting and I’d be having a word with the manager about it if someone was regularly doing that with their kids.

Eating pasta in a pool spectator area to me depends on the set up. At my kids’ lessons there’s a single row of narrow bench seats poolside, usually all occupied. I really wouldn’t appreciate the smell etc of someone eating a hot dinner sat literally next to me and the centre wouldn’t allow it anyway as no food or drink except water allowed. If your pool has more of a cafe set up or enough seats to sit far apart not bothering anyone and it permits food then go for it. I personally wouldn’t, I’d eat later (if necessary using a microwave to reheat the pasta) but if you aren’t bothering anyone else I don’t see any need to be hiding it under your coat.

ForestFox44 · 17/03/2025 21:31

IHopeYouStepOnALegPiece · 17/03/2025 19:56

Why? It’s efficient!

I used to feed the kids at the pool, shower them, straight into pjs then home for teeth and bed

I shower and put my son in his pjs after his swimming lesson too and sometimes do his dinner there.. saves me so much faff at home!

Poonu · 17/03/2025 21:49

Personally I prefer to eat in proper circumstances plate, cutlery so I would have had a snack to tide me over. I don't rush meals. But needs must so you do you. Why do you care what others think?

Poonu · 17/03/2025 21:51

Although I confess I have misophonia so I could not have sat next to you.

MasterBeth · 17/03/2025 22:01

Carouselfish · 17/03/2025 21:14

I mean dirty was an attempt at humour but also, the humidity, the bare hairy bods, the wet floors...not exactly conducive to feeling like eating a meal was hygienic.

You seem to be trying very hard to be krazy, but it's not really "massively unhygienic" to be eating pasta near a swimming pool.

BountifulPantry · 17/03/2025 22:02

I witnessed a very obviously pregnant colleague eat a whole meal deal whilst sat behind counsel in court and in full view of the judges, other solicitor and witnesses.

And I don’t fucking blame her.

Shitmonger · 17/03/2025 22:24

I sincerely hope that a video of a person furtively eating coat pasta pops up on my TikTok FYP. 😂

Annascaul · 17/03/2025 23:15

Carouselfish · 17/03/2025 21:14

I mean dirty was an attempt at humour but also, the humidity, the bare hairy bods, the wet floors...not exactly conducive to feeling like eating a meal was hygienic.

But you choked it down regardless? 🤷🏻‍♀️

Differentstarts · 17/03/2025 23:31

It depends what you mean by a meal iv eaten a sandwich in a pharmacy queue as it was taking ages and it was during my lunch break. Eating by a pool i wouldn't blink at. The only time iv looked twice was someone walking down the street Eating a bowl of cereal but that was during lockdown and people had pretty much lost the plot at that point so wasn't that weird

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