My husband thinks our friend would "have a dabble" given the chance. Ie with me. Am I unreasonable to find this totally gross. Apparently he was groping me all night (he wasn't). I told my husband how disgusting it was to suggest our friend was essentially sexually assaulting me and I didn't notice. He was a bit touchy, maybe tapping my shoulder occasionally not that I noticed as he's often a bit like that. Not in a gross way at all and not just with me but with my husband too sometimes as I pointed out. But apparently this means he'd "have a dabble". I feel quite sick but I'm drunk and may be overacting. Sorry but I'm not some piece of meat to be having a "dabble" with and I feel quite grossed out that my husband used this term to suggest our friend who has never behaved inappropriately would even be slightly interested in me in this way. Wtaf???