As a bit of background, my partner and I are living with his mum currently, I’ve recently found out I’m expecting our first child. Obviously we’d prefer to have our own space before baby is born, and in all honesty our room at MIL’s house would never fit a cot in nevermind anything else. DP and I would prefer not to rent as we are fortunate enough to be able to afford a deposit. The problem we have is, neither of us are high earners so we won’t be able to get a huge mortgage. Having had a look at what’s available, the only properties we can afford are flats, houses needing renovations, and houses with tenants in situ. Tenants in situ is an absolute no go for obvious reasons. One flat in particular we viewed last week and it’s lovely, ready to move in on completion, quiet area, large shared garden with 1 other flat, I have a friend with 2 DC who lives on the street so I know from her that it’s a lovely place to live. I mentioned making an offer to my mum and she said we should never buy a flat as we’ll end up selling at a loss and we’d essentially still be renting. As a first time buyer DP and I are really lost tbh - we loved the flat and really want to make an offer, also don’t really want to take in renovations while pregnant, but thinking maybe my mum has a point? If it were you, would you go for it or wait for a house to come up (obviously with no guarantee that anything will)?
YABU - your mums right, don’t buy the flat
YANBU - put an offer in