So, today is my DDs 15th birthday. We have 5 girls coming for a sleepover. I work full time in an intense job, plus have just had to go away for a few days to care for elderly parents. Got back on Wednesday. Mad work catch up on Thurs and Friday. Skive off work Friday afternoon to buy treats, last minute gifts, presents on behalf of elderly DPs too,. Am now dashing to supermarket before DD gets up. House is a bombsite, needs cleaning. DH has told me he's going out for the day. Possibly a good thing later. The teenagers won't want us around later...but...but..but...I'm busy as a busy thing ALL day today making everything "nice". All he has done is sign a card....I don't mind shopping for gifts, making the party happen, but it is the "blindness" to the load which is making me so mad