In 2003 I left a very well paid but stressful job as a Buyer to become a Carer for the elderly. I loved it for years and never regretted leaving and managed fine on the money as long as I did 40 hours +. However since then I met my husband, had my daughter and have only worked part time since. Without me really realising my pay has dropped 29% over the last 22 years and although my husband pays for nearly everything he does it begrudgingly now that our daughter is grown up. I feel so down as I'm now 56 and want to get back into a better paid job again. I looked into refreshing my admin skills as I would like to be an administrator in the NHS but the Pitman course was £2,650! I can't see a way out and my age is against me too. Any ideas how I can get out of the minimum wage rut I am currently in?