26 months little girl always on the move

[Ladybug1235]

Hi everybody
My little girl is 26 months and have been told by her daycare teacher that she is always on the move and doesn’t sit still for meals . She talks a bunch and they see it as hyper verbal . She does it at home when other people are in the room but I thought it was her way of showing off .
Long story short she’s showing symptoms of adhd and I know at the age they overlap with toddler behaviours.
She is not aggressive in any way and seeks hugs when she knows she has been naughty . She engages with her peers and shares her toys with them . She always follows directions and instructions when told ( age appropriate of course ) . She helps tidying up her toys at the end of the day . She sleeps like a log and tantrums lasts no more than a couple of minutes . I can go a get a quick shower that she would sit on the couch watching telly and I would find her still there when I come out .

Any of you parents recognise these symptoms in their child and then eased off as the years went by or not ?

She is busy but always listens to instructions . Her key worker said you can redirect her easily and always kind with her peers . Yes, the sitting still scared me off going into coffee places or out for lunch ( haven’t been since she was able to walk so 1 year ) . I know it doesn’t count but she can sit still watching stories in front of the telly or a small book

I know adhd can present subtly in girls . I guess my fear was that the nursery would tell us to find somewhere else to put her

I would have thought that adhd is more than the inability to sit still but I will keep an eye on her for sure . I guess I am concerned of how the world or the school system for that matter are gonna treat her because she might be different . Already now I can feel like judged by the staff that they had to pull me to one side and point out her shortcomings. I appreciate they are doing it to help us for the future but , honestly , at times I prefer it when kids where not treated any differently or scrutinised to such an extent

I would have told you she’s bright, chatty, and lively.

I think you need a new nursery. One where they are child led and look at the individual, not the text books. Kids can't read the books 😉. Oh, and I do have ADHD, and I'm autistic. I've also successfully raised 4 great kids who are wonderful adults.

She sounds perfectly fine the trouble is these days is people are looking for things when they don't need too.