Hi all do you think I'm being unreasonable, my hubby of 11 years suddenly decided 4 months ago to move into our spare room. Lock, stock and barrel, all clothes full shebang. Hexsays he gets a better night sleep. On top of that he's started doing his own washing, cooking for himself. All children up and gone but the youngest my son, his step son 18 (Adhd, Autistic) decided he wanted to come home. My hubby has decided he would rather us split up than have him home. Many years ago my eldest stayed with us with his son (single dad) for a couple of months and eventually we were selling our home and he told my son their was no room for him and he should go sofa surf with his son. The mam guilt you can imagine, but he was older with good income to afford his own place, but now not "allowing" my youngest to come home us breaking my heart. AIbu? Do you think it's time to call it a day. I'm very lonely in a marriage that is based on his priorities. Of which I am not one!